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Out of the Ashes: April 2006

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Out of the Ashes. One gay man’s journey through the debris of his crumbling marriage, separation and divorce into an exciting new life. Saturday, April 29, 2006. As I write this, I’m feeling a whole of host of feelings new and old. So, if this seems disjointed, I apologize.I’m full.and I’m still learning. I have not arrived. I do not have all the answers. But here is what I have learned. For years I have lived behind many walls of protection. I’d forgotten how to genuinely care for others. I’d fo...I see...

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Out of the Ashes: March 2006

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Out of the Ashes. One gay man’s journey through the debris of his crumbling marriage, separation and divorce into an exciting new life. Friday, March 31, 2006. During the spring and summer of 1983, my wife and I became heavily involved in children’s ministry within our denomination. I had perfected my puppetry skills and found out that my talents were much sought after. Those were heady times for the gay married guy and his female minister wife! On January 17, 1984, Lovey invited me to go with her to the...

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Out of the Ashes: July 2006

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Out of the Ashes. One gay man’s journey through the debris of his crumbling marriage, separation and divorce into an exciting new life. Monday, July 31, 2006. The doctor came into mother's hospital room early this morning. The results of the biopsy were in. He said. There is no need for any chemotherapy. My mother was so relieved. We got the news early. Something inside of me gave way. I fell into a deep dreamless sleep. God has heard my prayers. Totally. I am so grateful. I can breathe again. I must be ...

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Out of the Ashes: June 2006

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Out of the Ashes. One gay man’s journey through the debris of his crumbling marriage, separation and divorce into an exciting new life. Friday, June 30, 2006. This post is going to ramble. I feel it.so bear with me. What a week I have had! For openers, my basement got flooded due to all the rain we got this past week. It was the worst I've seen. Thirteen plus inches of water.in 48 hours. This was a flood of biblical proportions. It gives us all a real chuckle. If only "J" knew! Well, as #1 and I were cle...

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Out of the Ashes: September 2006

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Out of the Ashes. One gay man’s journey through the debris of his crumbling marriage, separation and divorce into an exciting new life. Thursday, September 28, 2006. The Tables are Turned! I got home early yesterday afternoon. So, I decided to do something a bit mindless: watch OPRAH! Well, let me tell you. I nearly dropped my popsicle when the topic was revealed.Gay WIVES! The promo ends with Oprah exclaiming something like, "In all my years, I've never heard of anything quite like this! You get my drift.

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Out of the Ashes: August 2006

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Out of the Ashes. One gay man’s journey through the debris of his crumbling marriage, separation and divorce into an exciting new life. Thursday, August 31, 2006. What is Your Definition of a True Friend? This is the first time I have had any moments to myself since I walked in the door to my office this morning! Meetings.meetings and more meetings. There is joy being a government bureaucrat! Why is it that I look so forward to these little meetings? We all talked about integration and how our sexuality ...

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Out of the Ashes: October 2006

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Out of the Ashes. One gay man’s journey through the debris of his crumbling marriage, separation and divorce into an exciting new life. Tuesday, October 31, 2006. The Story of a Bookcase. This is going to ramble.simply because I'm feeling bad. I've done something to my right shoulder.and right now I'm miserable. It has been with me all weekend long.and last night it woke me around 3am. I got rid of a bookcase that had been Lovey's even before we married. I hated that bookcase. At the separation, it lived...

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Out of the Ashes: May 2006

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Out of the Ashes. One gay man’s journey through the debris of his crumbling marriage, separation and divorce into an exciting new life. Wednesday, May 31, 2006. Fear of June 20, 2006. June 20 is West Virginia Day! This is the day that celebrates when West Virginia was admitted into the Union in the year 1863. I couldn't imagine how she got on the paddles! What site.and here some 43 years later it seems like ysterday. But I fear June 20, 2006. It's because this is the day it all becomes final physical...