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Ruffley and his local association chairman – you astound me! | sammieb1980
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Just another WordPress.com site. Dear Government, support and aftercare please. 10 non physical signs to look out for in a domestic abusive relationship →. Ruffley and his local association chairman – you astound me! July 28, 2014. Suffolk Conservatives had been split over whether David Ruffley should stand down as an MP over his police caution for assaulting his ex-girlfriend, with his local association chairman saying he did not believe it “in any way qualifies as domestic abuse”. Speed subsequently to...
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I got drunk on jealousy | sammieb1980
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Just another WordPress.com site. Coercive control after separation. What’s love got to do with it →. I got drunk on jealousy. July 26, 2015. Whenever we went out, he always made me feel like I was nothing, no one, useless and ugly. I used to follow his eyes as he looked at every attractive, pretty and beautiful female that walked in and at the pit of my stomach I would feel twangs of jealousy. He had this way of making me feel so inferior to him. And there’s alway one, just one, who would always co...
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What’s love got to do with it | sammieb1980
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Just another WordPress.com site. I got drunk on jealousy. Abuse is not aggression →. What’s love got to do with it. August 12, 2015. I thought he loved me, he made me feel loved. I wanted him to love me, the way I loved him. Isolation was never interpreted as abuse, I believed he wanted to spend time with me. He made me feel loved to hide the abuse. Perpetrators disguise their behaviour so they are seen as charming partners and not controlling perpetrators. Love has a lot to do with the complex cycle of ...
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April | 2015 | sammieb1980
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Just another WordPress.com site. Monthly Archives: April 2015. Self blame won’t change the past. April 29, 2015. Self-blame is toxic and paralyzes us before we can begin to move forward – something which perpetrator want to happen – blame can also lead to shame,something that can prevent us from evolving. Learn to love yourself, you are so lovable! You have already proved your perpetrator wrong! The sky is the limit! A perpetrator will want self-blame to be an obstacle to change and grow, instead, take c...
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It is torturous, it hurts and it kills | sammieb1980
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Just another WordPress.com site. Never be afraid to laugh. Crying out for help →. It is torturous, it hurts and it kills. July 18, 2015. It’s a fact that the world needs to open its eyes about domestic abuse by helping society learn the early warning signs rather than helping perpetrators sugar coat their control with care. It is a pattern of events that take place over a period of time which in turn, the severity increases but holds the victim so tight light metal chains tightening up around the whole b...
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Crying out for help | sammieb1980
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Just another WordPress.com site. It is torturous, it hurts and it kills. Coercive control after separation →. Crying out for help. July 18, 2015. That person you see every day, you know the one, the one who is always drunk at the bottom of your street, the one with the dark hair, yeah them, have you ever stopped to think why? You know the one you always read about in the free newspaper, the one under the Court section, always being arrested for stealing, have you ever stopped to think why? Committing a c...
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Just another WordPress.com site. Don’t focus on the past, you’ll miss the future. October 18, 2016. Sometimes you are in so deep you don’t ever feel like there is a way out of the dark tunnel that you find yourself in. You feel as though your whole wide world is closing in around you and you can’t find a way out, no matter how hard you true. Your self-confidence and worth has been sucked out of you and you feel as though you are not good for anything or anyone. Don’t be afraid to get back up to try again...
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A fragile wreck in a storm of emotion | sammieb1980
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Just another WordPress.com site. Controlled by their perpetrator and by the Government. Never be afraid to laugh →. A fragile wreck in a storm of emotion. July 18, 2015. Don’t think it won’t happen to you because it will, it does,it is. A package that is always disguised as love. You feel it, see it and breathe it as compassion, not control. Controlling you in such a way you don’t know it is. Family and friends find it difficult to understand and accept that you are a victim when you are showered with gi...
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Domestic abuse and trauancy | sammieb1980
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Just another WordPress.com site. Further cuts will be another excuse to abuse, for perpetrators. But I lost the weight, like you said →. Domestic abuse and trauancy. May 4, 2015. What about those children who are a victim of domestic abuse, not going to school in fear of revealing a bruise or a burn, frightened that they are going to get the perpetrator into trouble because they know no different, they think domestic abuse is normal and something that happens in all homes. Do we have a Government that is...
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June | 2015 | sammieb1980
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Just another WordPress.com site. Monthly Archives: June 2015. More than just bruises. June 16, 2015. As we briefly acknowledge them whilst we carry on with our day-to-day business, what do we see; hair colour/style, outfit and facial features, probably nothing more than that but do we ever take the time to read their story through their eyes, probably not. Just passing a person by in the street, you won’t know this is happening but it does. 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men will become a victim of do...If leav...
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