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Polyamory Archives - Not Just Happenstance
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It's Complicated. A blog about my experiences with polyamory, and life in general. November 21, 2014. I knew it’d been a long time since I’ve updated, but I hadn’t realized that I left things off on a cliffhanger. Oops! As rather vaguely alluded to in this post. Huge stress off my shoulders. There is, of course, so much more to work on. Will it continue to be Catalyst and I living together with Ember visiting regularly, or will we all live together? Would we all move somewhere else? Will I have children?
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October 2013 - Not Just Happenstance
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It's Complicated. A blog about my experiences with polyamory, and life in general. Monthly Archives: October 2013. Weekend Brunch for Three. October 23, 2013. Avocado, scrambled eggs, grapes, olives, mandarin oranges, blankets, snuggles, Top Chef, and Dr. Who. Click to share on Google (Opens in new window). Click to email this to a friend (Opens in new window). Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window). Click to share on Reddit (Opens in new window). Click to share on Tumblr (Opens in new window).
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November 2013 - Not Just Happenstance
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It's Complicated. A blog about my experiences with polyamory, and life in general. Monthly Archives: November 2013. November 5, 2013. Short post. It’s late and I should have been in bed 45 minutes ago. I have a lot of thinking to do about how much hiding is okay in my life. How open do I need to be able to be about my personal life? The real question is, how do I reassure that tiny part of me? Because I love my boys and I’m hanging on to them. Click to share on Google (Opens in new window). Click to shar...
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February 2014 - Not Just Happenstance
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It's Complicated. A blog about my experiences with polyamory, and life in general. Monthly Archives: February 2014. Some of my thoughts of hierarchy and polyamory. February 5, 2014. This was my contribution to the thread:. Is oral sex without a barrier ok? Click to share on Google (Opens in new window). Click to email this to a friend (Opens in new window). Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window). Click to share on Reddit (Opens in new window). Click to share on Tumblr (Opens in new window).
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December 2013 - Not Just Happenstance
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It's Complicated. A blog about my experiences with polyamory, and life in general. Monthly Archives: December 2013. December 17, 2013. So we talked last night. Well, first I sent a panicked, emotional email to Catalyst and received a reassuring response later in the day, and then Catalyst and Ember went to Costco to split a membership together (even though they live in different cities), and they got to talk a bit in the car. And. Click to share on Google (Opens in new window). Rocks Hard places. The...
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January 2014 - Not Just Happenstance
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It's Complicated. A blog about my experiences with polyamory, and life in general. Monthly Archives: January 2014. January 20, 2014. I’m an introvert, by which I mean I enjoy and crave time and space by myself, especially after I’ve been around other people. Aside from that, I’m also a relatively shy and quiet person, depending on the environment. I also used to try to play catch up on my days off, and honestly that just sucks. Why should my one day off be for cleaning and running errands? Click to share...
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November 2014 - Not Just Happenstance
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It's Complicated. A blog about my experiences with polyamory, and life in general. Monthly Archives: November 2014. November 21, 2014. I knew it’d been a long time since I’ve updated, but I hadn’t realized that I left things off on a cliffhanger. Oops! As rather vaguely alluded to in this post. Huge stress off my shoulders. There is, of course, so much more to work on. Will it continue to be Catalyst and I living together with Ember visiting regularly, or will we all live together? Will I have children?
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Coming out to Family Archives - Not Just Happenstance
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It's Complicated. A blog about my experiences with polyamory, and life in general. Category Archives: Coming out to Family. April 30, 2014. I don’t often say no to my parents. I was raised in an environment where I was scolded for reluctant obedience, let alone defiance. But I rarely found out what defying my parents meant, because I just didn’t do it (except by accident as a result of my occasionally spotty memory, my penchant for procrastination, and my tendency to get sidetracked). Coming out to Family.
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April 2014 - Not Just Happenstance
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It's Complicated. A blog about my experiences with polyamory, and life in general. Monthly Archives: April 2014. April 30, 2014. I don’t often say no to my parents. I was raised in an environment where I was scolded for reluctant obedience, let alone defiance. But I rarely found out what defying my parents meant, because I just didn’t do it (except by accident as a result of my occasionally spotty memory, my penchant for procrastination, and my tendency to get sidetracked). Coming out to Family. Click to...
