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Enneagram Questions Answered : Conscious Type Development
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By Mary R. Bast, Ph.D., Enneagram Coach and Mentor. Monday, January 26, 2015. I've just begun sharing Enneagram materials with my new team mates at work. I'm a Five. And tend to be concise, so if you want me to amplify anything, just ask. For a few years now I've been quite impressed. Ional orientation of the Enneagram. Gives even more depth than the MBTI. Do you agree? Since then I've explored. Naomi Quenk's Beside Ourselves. He way we move toward wholeness or individuation is by expanding our knowledge...
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Enneagram Questions Answered : The Glass Half Empty - Enneagram Style Fours
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By Mary R. Bast, Ph.D., Enneagram Coach and Mentor. Wednesday, May 6, 2015. The Glass Half Empty - Enneagram Style Fours. Dylan Thomas' poem, "Fern Hill," in the context of Enneagram Four. Patterns. I know the gist of the poem is something like living with no thought for the future until it's too late. I don't understand how that represents Fours. Could you give me more of your analysis? However, it was somewhat arbitrary of me to assign this poem. I chose "Fern Hill". To represent style Four's particula...
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Enneagram Questions Answered : Loved to Death
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By Mary R. Bast, Ph.D., Enneagram Coach and Mentor. Monday, February 2, 2015. Today I decided to pursue a divorce from my too-often-angry “ One. 8221; husband. He rarely shows this angry side to anyone else. Helen Palmer seems to suggest that Ones are usually better off with other Ones. I couldn’t agree more – BUT we have a 9-year-old child. I'm an Enneagram Four. How can I relate better with my One husband whether or not the divorce goes through? It isn't my understanding. The Enneagram in Love and Work.
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Poetry & Personality: "I'll marry the bent mirror..."
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Friday, May 8, 2015. I'll marry the bent mirror.". How many times have you looked around and decided your life is ordinary, mundane, when you hear or read about someone else's life and wish yours could be so? When we step back from the ordinary and expand our vision, we can see things in a new, even innovative way. Carolyn Creedon's "Pub Poem," for example, quite beautifully expresses a completely new way to look at love:. If I hold my breath for a million years, little oyster. Bare, barely staying afloat.
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Poetry & Personality: "Heart, you bully, you punk..."
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Friday, May 8, 2015. Heart, you bully, you punk.". When we feel under attack, we're not very likely to acknowledge vulnerability. For many of us, perhaps more true of men, there were typically no safe places to be sissies. When we were young. Gary Gildner '. S football coach in ". First Practice" made this message clear to the young men on his squad when he lined them up facing each other and said:. If we are to win. That title I want to see how. But I don '. T want to see. Any marks when you '. We would...
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Poetry & Personality: "Stand still, stand still, and stop the sun..."
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Friday, May 8, 2015. Stand still, stand still, and stop the sun.". Any of us may have times when we can '. T bear dealing with reality. We may be over-focused on having fun, telling anecdotes and jokes to cheer up ourselves and others, diving into a variety of attractions to avoid a difficult scene of some kind. Stevie Smith '. Not Waving but Drowning" captures in metaphorical language this compulsion to enjoy at all costs:. Nobody heard him, the dead man,. But still he lay moaning:. S why we '. Re drawn...
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Poetry & Personality: "Thinking became a garden of its own..."
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Friday, May 8, 2015. Thinking became a garden of its own.". Gregory Bateson was a seminal influence in the fields of anthropology, social science, and communication (cybernetics). In. Steps to an Ecology of Mind. He introduced the concept of second-order change (a capacity to process and respond to information in self-corrective ways). His poem. The Manuscript nicely appropriates our logical thought patterns and language:. If you read between the lines. You will find nothing there. The skeleton of truth.
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Enneagram Coach Mentor: Whistling in the Dark
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Wednesday, July 1, 2015. Whistling in the Dark. A coach I mentored described a client I’ll name Mike. Whose behavior threatened to compromise his law. He’d cancel lucrative cases to work on high-risk, low-pay cases. When his partners tried to talk him out of these risky cases, he'd insist he could win. Instead of seeing their concern for the partnership's viability, he. Thought they were trying to get rid of him. His coach thought Mike was probably Enneagram style Six. I can do it! With style Six patt.
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Enneagram Coach Mentor: How to Write a Personal Vision
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Saturday, February 7, 2015. How to Write a Personal Vision. Stanford Business School's Michael Ray believes the key to accessing deeper sources of creativity can be found in two questions: Who is my Self? Your higher self, your divinity, your highest future potential. And What is my Work? The purpose of your existence, what you'. Meant to be) (From page 101 of Presence. By Peter Senge, C. Otto Scharmer, Joseph Jaworski, and Betty Sue Flowers.). Who is your Self? What is your Work? Who is your Self? What ...
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Enneagram Coach Mentor: The Paradoxical Approach to Problem Solving
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Thursday, August 6, 2015. The Paradoxical Approach to Problem Solving. In a recent blog post " Alter the Interaction, Not the Other Person. I describe a couple caught up in a self-fulfilling negative cycle, and how to interrupt that particular dynamic with paradoxical problem solving. Below are key components of this approach, drawn from work at Stanford's Mental Research Institute ( The Tactics of Change,. Fisch, Weakland, and Segal). The Importance of Reframing. Perception of it. You're finding way...
