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A Solitary Journey: Pedophiles, Partners & Churches: Double Standards & Cheap Grace
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From personal devastation and betrayal to discovering self, wholeness and recovery. Married to a Pedophile. You Might be Married to a Pedophile if . . . Sunday, August 25, 2013. Pedophiles, Partners and Churches: Double Standards and Cheap Grace. And victimize innocent children and adults. And churches are eager to see a repentant sinner restored to grace. One blogger, the son of a pastor molester, recently tackled the question How Should Christians Treat Repentant Pedophiles? As a Partner,. What do I ne...
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A Solitary Journey: Why Love Matters: Thoughts on Supreme Court Ruling
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From personal devastation and betrayal to discovering self, wholeness and recovery. Married to a Pedophile. You Might be Married to a Pedophile if . . . Monday, June 29, 2015. Why Love Matters: Thoughts on Supreme Court Ruling. In light of recent events in our nation, I am departing from my usual topic to add my two cents worth to the public debate. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). Why Love Matters: Thoughts on Supreme Court Rulin. Pasquale Talerico Used by permission. Out of the Shadows: Understandin...
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A Solitary Journey: Who Gets to Control Me?
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From personal devastation and betrayal to discovering self, wholeness and recovery. Married to a Pedophile. You Might be Married to a Pedophile if . . . Monday, April 13, 2015. Who Gets to Control Me? You are a woman, a weaker vessel and it is because of you that sin entered the world. And then in a horrible traumatic way, I learned what it would take to please him. And were it possible for me to do or be what he desired, I would refuse. I simply could not/would not become a child again. Life's journey i...
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A Solitary Journey: October 2014
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From personal devastation and betrayal to discovering self, wholeness and recovery. Married to a Pedophile. You Might be Married to a Pedophile if . . . Monday, October 27, 2014. Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow. Yesterday is gone and can never be recaptured and we are not promised tomorrow. We have this moment, this very moment of life. And isn't that enough? Sunday, October 19, 2014. The halls that led to our breakout rooms were filled with men and women in incredibly skimpy attire- not the ballroom danci...
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A Solitary Journey: Heartbroken and Angry
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From personal devastation and betrayal to discovering self, wholeness and recovery. Married to a Pedophile. You Might be Married to a Pedophile if . . . Saturday, May 23, 2015. The greater likelihood that molesters are at work. The first story involves TLC reality star Josh Duggar's. And then there is the story of Karen (Root) Hinkley. Filed for an annulment of their marriage and it was granted. The judge granted an annulment rather than a divorce because she alleged that the marriage was based on fr...
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A Solitary Journey: You Might be Married to a Pedophile if . . .
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From personal devastation and betrayal to discovering self, wholeness and recovery. Married to a Pedophile. You Might be Married to a Pedophile if . . . You Might be Married to a Pedophile if . . . It is vital to note that if you see one or two of these signs that does not necessarily mean that your partner is a pedophile. The intent in providing these questions is to give you a broad pattern of behavior that may. Does he exhibit an idealized or romanticized view of children? Does he have a preoccupation...
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A Solitary Journey: April 2015
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From personal devastation and betrayal to discovering self, wholeness and recovery. Married to a Pedophile. You Might be Married to a Pedophile if . . . Monday, April 13, 2015. Who Gets to Control Me? You are a woman, a weaker vessel and it is because of you that sin entered the world. And then in a horrible traumatic way, I learned what it would take to please him. And were it possible for me to do or be what he desired, I would refuse. I simply could not/would not become a child again. A House Interrup...
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A Solitary Journey: February 2015
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From personal devastation and betrayal to discovering self, wholeness and recovery. Married to a Pedophile. You Might be Married to a Pedophile if . . . Thursday, February 5, 2015. An Emotionally Unavailable God. My recent posts on connection. Have spurred additional thinking and pondering, which may or may not be a good thing. Without question, we were designed for human connection and in its absence we break, we hurt and often we numb. For me, the path to connection with God has required letting go- le...
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A Solitary Journey: An Emotionally Unavailable God
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From personal devastation and betrayal to discovering self, wholeness and recovery. Married to a Pedophile. You Might be Married to a Pedophile if . . . Thursday, February 5, 2015. An Emotionally Unavailable God. My recent posts on connection. Have spurred additional thinking and pondering, which may or may not be a good thing. Without question, we were designed for human connection and in its absence we break, we hurt and often we numb. For me, the path to connection with God has required letting go- le...
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A Solitary Journey: November 2014
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From personal devastation and betrayal to discovering self, wholeness and recovery. Married to a Pedophile. You Might be Married to a Pedophile if . . . Saturday, November 22, 2014. Staying Safe in a Predatory World. According to Dr. Anne Salter, each of us operates by a set of positive personal illusions. Bad things happen to people other than me- people of color, people who live on the wrong side of the track, people who like XYZ, people who are ABC, people who do MNO, etc. I'm a good deception detector.