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The Gay side of Things.: Being Gay: Myths & Facts.

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The Gay side of Things. Friday, September 14, 2007. Being Gay: Myths and Facts. I've always found it strange why I need to explain or write to justify my sexuality in particular and the strange, alien concept that homosexuality appears to be to a sizeable number of heterosexuals in general. After all, no one goes up to another person and asks so why are you straight. Nothing remarkable, nothing sensational. So what attracts such interest as to my identity or the need to confirm my sexuality? Couldn't car...

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The Gay side of Things.: Words

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The Gay side of Things. Tuesday, October 9, 2012. I lie here entangled. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). A *less* Rabid Yaoi reader who *still* watches an unhealthy amount of Anime and Youtube. Likes to run and sing, even if he isn't always very good at either. Explicitly Gay, Implicitly Personal. Tweets: Cuz somethings aint free. Getting cozy with Aelgtoer. Genesis - Intro I. Embarkation - Intro II. Voyage - Intro III. Being Gay: Myths and Facts - Common Misconceptions. The perennial Gay question.

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The Gay side of Things.: Coffee grounds

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The Gay side of Things. Sunday, February 15, 2009. It's amazing isn't it? How people claim to be able to see the future in the most mundane of things. Like coffee grounds. Wonder how anyone sees shit from that shit." J mused, staring at the dregs of kopi in his empty cup. You didn't ask me out for supper just to bemoan your future as foretold in an 80 cents cup of coffee, did you? I replied, pushing the remnants of prata round my plate. Nope Don't you have better things to do on Valentine's Day? Neither ...

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The Gay side of Things.: Being human.

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The Gay side of Things. Sunday, March 16, 2008. A paradox. We don't always know what it means to be humane and yet we are often reminded of the frailties of human nature, what it means to be a human, sometimes painfully so. Which is why we give exes the perfunctory well wishes, with a stiff smile and forced gaiety, to be happy with their newly beloveds even when we do not feel inclined to. Why? Yes and no. It's certainly illogical. Humans can be irrational, the mind does not rule the heart. I...It's iron...

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The Gay side of Things.: Genesis.

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The Gay side of Things. Thursday, January 18, 2007. A new blog. Pristine, clean, unadulterated. Never one who liked having to customise/start up new blogs, I was nonetheless persuaded to set one up in which I could express things in the way I really view it to be. Unadulterated, uncensored, no need to temper entries in the usual conventional, perceived way of things. Reckless insults and bigotry shall of course forever be absent. So when did I realise I was gay? Leaving the bulbous nose and a bristly chin.

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The Gay side of Things.: June 2014

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The Gay side of Things. Sunday, June 29, 2014. Feelings that fail to abate. Friday, June 27, 2014. It has been a while. Revisiting the blog is like looking back fondly on a dusty diary. Snap shots of thoughts, emotions and events captured in individual entries. For some, a reflection of events even further back in time. One feels almost apologetic. An intruder in a graveyard of memories. But in what manner? There is much to commend about the purity of memories preserved. Crystal and clear. But me...The m...

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The Gay side of Things.: August 2012

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The Gay side of Things. Tuesday, August 14, 2012. Looking back on the previous posts, an inexorable truth comes to mind. As the years pass, I post less. Not out of any conscious effort to abstain from doing so. In fact, the opposite may probably be so. A general sense of lethargy, the mind numbing impact of work and the simple dearth of desire would probably explain the silence. Is it that hard to find a decent guy? Leave ya with Lights by Ellie Goulding. I had a way then losing it all on my own. And so ...

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The Gay side of Things.: September 2012

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The Gay side of Things. Saturday, September 8, 2012. Your love, my Dear is like a drug. Sweet, syrupy, sometimes abrupt. Dark with meaning, Light with candour. The companionable silences,. Comfortable counterparts to the exuberant exchanges that follow. Like butter on toast, a rose to my nose. Tell me darling whenceforth I should go. For your arms my love, are inviting me so. Wednesday, September 5, 2012. I look out. At the rain. A fine mist coalescing into a shower of silver needles. Of you and I. Yaoi ...

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The Gay side of Things.: Top or Bottom?

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The Gay side of Things. Thursday, February 8, 2007. So, it was interesting when I first got together with Sean, a self-declared Top/Flex who professed curiosity at how it would feel like to be a bottom. What puzzled me more was that till we'd gotten together, he'd never done anal with his previous two Ex-es, one of which lasted a year. One year, and you guys didn't do it? What on earth did you do? Hrmm just oral lo, 69 and jerk off. That's all.". Aiya we were young then, so neither of us dared to.".

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The Gay side of Things.: Absence

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The Gay side of Things. Friday, June 27, 2014. It has been a while. Revisiting the blog is like looking back fondly on a dusty diary. Snap shots of thoughts, emotions and events captured in individual entries. For some, a reflection of events even further back in time. One feels almost apologetic. An intruder in a graveyard of memories. But in what manner? There is much to commend about the purity of memories preserved. Crystal and clear. But memories perfectly preserved are those perfectly forgo...The m...