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Wisdom of Communication: The Elegant Email: Ten Tips To Help You Communicate More Effectively

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The Elegant Email: Ten Tips To Help You Communicate More Effectively. Is the Elegant Email a paradox or a realistic goal? Is every email we send an opportunity to forget who we are or is it another way of showing people who we are? If the “sent email” is representative of who we truly are, then it is time to think about the message we want our emails to communicate before we hit SEND! Define the goal of your message before writing your email. Does your email achieve that goal? If your email is filled wit...

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Wisdom of Communication: Communication and the Law of Attraction

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Communication and the Law of Attraction. Have you ever wondered why some people seem so at ease and others not at all? Have you noticed that people at ease tend to get more of what they seek, whether in communication or in general? Or that people at ease who have the wrong answer get support from others while people not at ease who have the right answer do not? Hint: it’s not about “charisma”. When the energy is some combination of negative, offensive, frightened, judging, critical, single minded, incons...

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Wisdom of Communication: The Power of Listening

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The Power of Listening. Your true self to the communication by listening. Communication is lost when there is no sharing; often both parties want to convince the other of their position and focus only on communicating their own perspective. When we listen we open to forming a relationship of understanding. We have to drop our old patterns with this person for the situation to expand for mutual good. If something is said that stirs your negative emotions, keep breathing and listening. This allows you ...

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Wisdom of Communication: Getting to the Underlying Emotions Behind the Stated Problem

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Getting to the Underlying Emotions Behind the Stated Problem. By Dr Nina Mistry. It is generally difficult for most of us to express our feelings of sadness, fear, betrayal, hurt, etc., because doing so makes each of us vulnerable. Moving beyond the problem and expressing our feelings helps to establish greater understanding and closeness. Dr Mistry specializes in the treatment of anxiety and depression. She also provides treatment to couples and families. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). The incredib...

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Wisdom of Communication: The Purpose of Communication with Intimate Partners

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The Purpose of Communication with Intimate Partners. Our partners can help us better know ourselves, and correct /strengthen weaknesses. In so doing, we can achieve true intimacy and joy, within ourselves and with them, if we allow them, by allowing ourselves to hear their feedback and then practice honest self-reflection. Partners with higher levels of self-esteem can better welcome the opportunity to hear feedback from their intimate partners than those with lower self-esteem. Where there is low self-e...

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Wisdom of Communication: The Benefits and Risks of Assumptions in Communication

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The Benefits and Risks of Assumptions in Communication. By Dr Helen Radovanovic. 8220;To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.” - Anthony Robins. Hence, most communication experts and counselors give the following similar advice:. Be patient when listening to someone and let them finish their thought/message. It is important to ask questions when you are feeling upset/stre...

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Wisdom of Communication: Active Listening

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By Dr Raymond Morris. The most valuable first skill necessary for healthy interpersonal communication is the ability to listen to and actually hear what the other person has to say. You may be surprised to find out how difficult active listening is. The two most important aspects of communication or things to listen for are:. The content or words utilized and which convey the meaning of what is being said, and. The feelings expressed in association with the meaning. Don’t become defensive. Try to leave y...

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Wisdom of Communication: Listening with Talking Stick

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Listening with Talking Stick. A very simple and effective tool to start to build more listening into a relationship is as follows:. Both partners set aside some quiet time when they will not be disturbed by children, the phone or any outside distractions. It is good if both partners write this into their calendars like any other appointment. It is wonderful to start the talk with some deep breathing, or by lighting a candle.something to help both people get into a state of relative calm. The incredible p...

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Wisdom of Communication: Further Readings

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By Dr Marie France Lafontaine. A Five-step Guide for Building Better Connections With Family, Friends, And Lovers. By Gottman, John and DeClaire, Joan (2001). New York: Three Rivers Press. Dr. John Gottman presents a revolutionary five-step program for repairing troubled relationships - with spouses and lovers, children and other family members, friends, and even your boss or colleagues at work. Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love. Dr Marie-France Lafontaine,. C Psych., is a psy...