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Tough love – Unhealthy Relationships
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A heart for the hurting. So where does it begin? Verbal abusers are not open to rational discussion, explanations of the hurt they are causing, or displays of grief. They interpret this as complaining; they see you as you being a martyr; and usually their response is to ‘twist the knife’. Injustice or abuse against you or your family are legitimate cause for complaint. To do nothing at such times is irresponsible. But complaining about it is not. Something about it. No matter how misunderstood you ma...
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recommended reading – Unhealthy Relationships
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A heart for the hurting. So where does it begin? The Verbally Abusive Relationship:. How to Recognize it and How to Respond. Discusses the potential damage of verbal abuse,. How to identify a problem relationship,. And how to change or leave such relationships. The Emotionally Abusive Relationship:. How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing. Engel covers all aspects of emotional abuse, including the patterns that begin in childhood, teaching us how to identify and understand emotional abuse. T...
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The greatest obstacle – Unhealthy Relationships
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A heart for the hurting. So where does it begin? Feelings of pain, loneliness, rejection are not wrong. In fact they may need to come to the surface if they’ve been suppressed. Unresolved emotional issues must find release or they build up inside you, turning into resentment. You’d have to be super-human not to feel resentment after years of disparagement and verbal abuse. Humanly speaking you have every right to feel bitter. The trouble is that resentment does. Forgiving towards someone who’s been...
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Eileen Fletcher – Unhealthy Relationships
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A heart for the hurting. So where does it begin? July 4, 2016. Over five years have passed since I put this site online, in response to a request from a doctor who was concerned by the increasing numbers of patients who were living with verbal abuse. In the meantime I have continued to research and write on other areas of health, particularly the emerging science of epigenetics. Another effect of impaired brain chemicals is “. Ever hearing yet never understanding, ever seeing yet never perceiving. PS My ...
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Control – Unhealthy Relationships
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A heart for the hurting. So where does it begin? Writing in So Why Does He Do That? Lundy Bancroft says,. I believe that every man who has recurring problems with angry or controlling behaviours is abusiv. E And he goes on to explain,. I have chosen to use the word ‘abusers’ to men who use a wide range of controlling, devaluing, or intimidating behaviours. Any man who has recurring problems with disrespecting, controlling, insulting, or devaluing his partner. Disrespect for women is rampant in abusive me.
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Iona | Eileen's Blog
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Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. (Psalm 37:4). June 8, 2015. I’ve just come back from an amazing week on the beautiful island of Iona, staying in the Abbey with a group of friends from church. Wonderful conversations with lovely people – not least with a group of very special ladies from Huddersfield. At the Welcome Meeting we were asked to share our thoughts on building community. I explained that I’d been thinking about the glory of God: “. Celtic Christiani...
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Verbal Abuse – Unhealthy Relationships
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A heart for the hurting. So where does it begin? Have you ever found yourself on the receiving end of verbal abuse or an emotional outburst that appears to come out of nowhere and seems to make no sense? Can you imagine living with this on a regular basis? Perhaps you’re experiencing just that – and are trying to work out how to cope and what to do about it. Do you find yourself ‘walking on eggshells’ most of the time, ‘tip-toeing around’ trying to avoid triggering conflict? Is it confusing you?
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Confusing spirit and soul | A word to the church
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A word to the church. A heart for the hurting. Confusing spirit and soul. So what can you do? Confusing spirit and soul. The Latent Power Of The Soul. Was written in 1933 by Watchman Nee. The following quote sums it up well:-. The peril of the believer is to confuse the spirit for the soul and the soul for the spirit, and so be deceived into accepting the counterfeit work of evil spirits to the unsettling of God’s work. The Latent Power of the Soul is available from here. A more modern book. Dr Alex W...
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Recommended reading | A word to the church
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A word to the church. A heart for the hurting. Confusing spirit and soul. So what can you do? The Verbally Abusive Relationship:. How to Recognize it and How to Respond. Discusses the potential damage of verbal abuse,. How to identify a problem relationship,. And how to change or leave such relationships. The Emotionally Abusive Relationship:. How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing. Engel covers all aspects of emotional abuse, including the patterns that begin in childhood, teaching us how to i...