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parentaladvisory: The safety bond
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A blog focused on insights for parents. Tuesday, December 4, 2007. I just finished watching "Little Miss Sunshine" for the second time. It had been a while since I had seen it and I had forgotten how weird the family was, but also why I had liked it so much. It was a moving tribute to the resilience of families. I have worked with many dysfunctional families as a family therapist. What I was looking for in the family was to make sure the family was safe. It didn't matter to me what the family loo...As an...
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WWJIMMYDO: April 2008
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Wednesday, April 9, 2008. I am taking an exam tomorrow of which I am not prepared. I have pages and pages of notes and reading to do, but I just can't get off the Wii. What can I do? Wii have a problem. First of all don't say Wii. Only U have a problem. And it is only a issue if you are hoping to graduate school. This is not an issue if your goal is to become a video game god. I'm sure video game gods, work on their craft in a sleep deprived state, and there is no homework. Subscribe to: Posts (Atom).
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WWJIMMYDO: Seeking sanity
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Friday, October 30, 2009. How do you inform someone that they’re not cut out for a job that they have without making them feel bad? I have a hard time saying “no” to people and find that I am overwhelmed most of the time because of it. How can I become more assertive in my communication so that I save myself from insanity? Dear seeking sanity,. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). View my complete profile.
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WWJIMMYDO: Mister Rogers confused me
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Tuesday, September 29, 2009. Mister Rogers confused me. As a small child I watched Mister Rogers Neighborhood to understand how the world works. I find myself confused because it seems like the world isn't as he portrayed it. Could you please help me understand my confusion? Rogers.over and out! Dear Rogers.over and out! Here is where the confusion comes in. Mr. Rogers, "pretended" to be at home, when he showed up for work. His work was to teach boys and girls about life. I feel your confusion!
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WWJIMMYDO: Study troubles
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Wednesday, April 9, 2008. I am taking an exam tomorrow of which I am not prepared. I have pages and pages of notes and reading to do, but I just can't get off the Wii. What can I do? Wii have a problem. First of all don't say Wii. Only U have a problem. And it is only a issue if you are hoping to graduate school. This is not an issue if your goal is to become a video game god. I'm sure video game gods, work on their craft in a sleep deprived state, and there is no homework. View my complete profile.
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parentaladvisory: Building
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A blog focused on insights for parents. Monday, January 14, 2008. Eroding self esteem is much easier than building it. We need to be searchers of strengths rather than searchers of weaknesses. I agree with that statement and add "not only in other people, but within ourselves as well.". We shouldn't be afraid to talk about things that need improvement. And when you do, start out with positives and talk about the developmental opportunities from a context what they are already doing well.
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parentaladvisory: Parent appreciation
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A blog focused on insights for parents. Sunday, January 13, 2008. When you become a parent your idea of time changes. Before parenting you can measure results in the immediate future. As a parent, when you do something for your child your expectation moves to years. There is no way that a child can understand the sacrifices made, until they have to make the same sacrifices. So ten years or so down the road, maybe they will be thankful I did this for them today. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom).
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parentaladvisory: Don't forget why you are here
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A blog focused on insights for parents. Thursday, January 3, 2008. Don't forget why you are here. I have known parents who were very frustrated because of their child's defiance. As the dance between the child and the parent increased, the parent moves into a death grip with the child over compliance. How dare you disobey (Talk back,defy, insert your personal favorite) me! How is the battle that we find ourselves fighting help those ends? Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). Are you smarter than your kid?
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WWJIMMYDO: Party
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Thursday, October 22, 2009. During Spring Break I flew in a plane to my destination. On the seats next to me was a mother with an infant. The infant screamed the whole flight. When we got in I wanted to get my hearing checked because I think I suffered hearing loss from the screams. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). View my complete profile.