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Little Gidding: Power Tripping Self-Righteousness (On Either The "Left" or The "Right")
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Power Tripping Self-Righteousness (On Either The "Left" or The "Right"). Self-righteousness is the same, and for the same reasons, whether it's on the Left or the Right side of the aisle, or even outside the building. A person with Self-righteousness likes it when he or she finds an excuse to feel offended, because it's an opportunity for a display of moral superiority, which translates to feeling control, belonging, innocence, and power. It's a feeling of vindication, moral superiority, moral high-groun...
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Little Gidding: Blaming Entire Groups For One's Own Pain
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Blaming Entire Groups For One's Own Pain. A symptom common in several personality disorders is placing blame for all of one's own problems, or all the world's problems, on not only another person, but also on an entire group of humans. This is nearly always a learned behavior AND perception from childhood, from the influence of other people around the person as they were growing up. If you go to another community in another region, it will be a DIFFERENT group that's getting blamed for everything. Humans...
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Little Gidding: Defensiveness And Power
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Black-and-white thinkers often assume that if another person's statement, opinion, or point of view does not sound exactly the same as their own (even if it IS the same, but is said in a slightly different way), then they must be "against" them. It's either "right" or "wrong",. They're either "with me" or "against me",. They either "get it" or they're "clueless",. They're either "good" (like me), or "bad" (not like me). Take what you need and leave the rest. 8220;If anyone tells you that a certain person...
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Little Gidding: Is It Sexism, Or Not?
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Is It Sexism, Or Not? If you're not sure if something is "sexist" or not, or biased FOR one sex or not, whether the possible target is male or female, and regardless of the sex of the possible "perpetrators",. Switch the target person in your mind to the opposite sex, and see how the situation shifts, or if it doesn't shift. Or would they reject them, or treat them like they're "weird" or "unstable"? Would it be the same, or would they treat you better? Communities that force children into specific and l...
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Neville Palmer - AnotherLandscape | Exhibitions
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City Gallery, Peterborough 2014. ADeC - Atelier East Summer Exhibition. Greyfriars Art Space Members Exhibition. The Collection, Lincoln, 31st May - 7th September 2014 - Purchase Award Winner. One of eight artists selected by Mark Leckey and Jess Flood-Paddock for the third biennial exhibition at The Collection in Lincoln showcasing contemporary artistic practice in the east of England. The Purchase Award was sponsored by The Heslam Trust, which acquires artworks for the people of Lincoln. At the time of...
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Little Gidding: Envy, Competition, Desire, Ego, and War
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Envy, Competition, Desire, Ego, and War. Envy is a common motive behind. Bullying, insult, slander, libel,. Sabotage, and war. Competition for attention, credit,. Popularity, status, affection,. Favoritism, resources, and. Business is a close runner-up. Desire for possession and control. Over a person or a group of people. If the human species suddenly evolved just. A little bit, these issues would no longer exist. Take what you need and leave the rest. Let the beauty you love be what you do.". Robs Phot...
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Little Gidding: Healthy Parenting Vs. Unhealthy Parenting
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Healthy Parenting Vs. Unhealthy Parenting. It is absolutely not "normal" for a child to worry that he or she is going to be rejected, abandoned, invaded, insulted, stolen from, manipulated, backstabbed, exploited, triangulated against, or attacked emotionally, physically, or in any other way by a parent. The difference between nine people pushing a stalled car with one person in it, steering, and one person pushing a car with nine people in it. Or ten people keeping watch over a flock of sheep, taking br...
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Little Gidding: Moral High Ground Vs. Family And Friendship
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Moral High Ground Vs. Family And Friendship. A person who is using "moral high ground" in order to have an excuse to reject, abandon, abuse, dominate, or attack another person is, ironically, doing something that is immoral. Take what you need and leave the rest. 8220;To learn which questions are unanswerable, and not to answer them: this skill is most needful in times of stress and darkness.” ― Ursula K. Le Guin. Surrender, but don't give yourself away." -Cheap Trick. Imbalance Of Power In Culture.
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Little Gidding: The Lion And The Field Mouse
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The Lion And The Field Mouse. The Lion And The Field Mouse. A field mouse lives in a hole in the lions' cage. At the zoo. The only food and water she gets is what. She can glean from the lion’s daily rations, and from. What she can find outside the cage, where she must. Avoid being caught and killed by humans and other. Predators such as birds and roaming cats. She learned to avoid cheese-baited traps when. The end of her tail was cut off by one of them. Snapping down on her when she tried to gather the.
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Little Gidding: Self-Righteousness And NPD
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Self-righteousness, elevating one's self to be "above reproach", and judging others to be inferior for various "reasons" are traits of Narcissistic disorder. I am naturally, categorically above those other people, therefore my thoughts and feelings are correct, right, and righteous, and in comparison to mine, theirs are flawed, invalid, nonsensical, wrong, and insignificant.". I am physicall y superior to those people, and therefore supreme.". Take what you need and leave the rest. 8220;If anyone tells y...
