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Conflicting Clarity: True Love Never Dies
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I'm a gay man who married his best friend and started a family. Now I'm divorced and still trying to come to terms with who I am and what I want in life. Thursday, April 2, 2015. True Love Never Dies. When you love someone, I mean really love them deep in your heart, that kind of love does not go away. It does not fade over time and distance. It endures. It sounds like youve at long last made peace with the restrictions a relationship with T entails. Hearing a smile in your words is great to hear! Well, ...
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Conflicting Clarity: You Are Doing It Again
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I'm a gay man who married his best friend and started a family. Now I'm divorced and still trying to come to terms with who I am and what I want in life. Friday, July 18, 2014. You Are Doing It Again. The next day she we were talking on the phone and she sounded different. I asked her about it and she told me at the party, she had hooked up with another guy. She said they just kissed, but I never really believed that. She broke up with me there on the phone. That happened to me again yesterday. I have be...
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Conflicting Clarity: Lonely Coffee
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I'm a gay man who married his best friend and started a family. Now I'm divorced and still trying to come to terms with who I am and what I want in life. Sunday, June 1, 2014. After returning from England, I was home for one day and then left on a cruise vacation. K planned it and asked me if I wanted to come. Who was going? A crowd. It was me, my 4 kids, K, AJ, and AJ’s daughter. Eight of us all together on a Carnival cruise ship for 6 days. What could possibly go wrong? When does the chef get a name?
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Conflicting Clarity: Vacation and the Persistence of the Trurh
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I'm a gay man who married his best friend and started a family. Now I'm divorced and still trying to come to terms with who I am and what I want in life. Sunday, April 26, 2015. Vacation and the Persistence of the Trurh. Something extraordinary happened this week. Well, two things actually. 1 T is taking a few days off from work to go one a long weekend get away. 2 T invited me to come along. As much a I want to it be so, I know I am not going as his boyfriend. In fact, several days after I got the i...
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Conflicting Clarity: So Many Couples
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I'm a gay man who married his best friend and started a family. Now I'm divorced and still trying to come to terms with who I am and what I want in life. Monday, June 2, 2014. The ship we were on was huge. While 3,100 passengers sounds like a lot, I was surprised how small it felt. I was surprised about how often I would see the same people over and over. Not only would we see them on the ship, but I would see them in port as well. Each time I saw one of these couples together, I thought about the Chef&#...
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Conflicting Clarity: Theme Park in the Rain
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I'm a gay man who married his best friend and started a family. Now I'm divorced and still trying to come to terms with who I am and what I want in life. Tuesday, April 28, 2015. Theme Park in the Rain. Last year I took the kids to a local theme park for the day. It was October so were not a lot of people there and the lines were all really short. We had a GREAT time together! Even my 10 year old daughter went on the tallest roller-coaster in the place. (And this place has a lot of coasters). When we wer...
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Conflicting Clarity: A Very Gay Day
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I'm a gay man who married his best friend and started a family. Now I'm divorced and still trying to come to terms with who I am and what I want in life. Tuesday, April 14, 2015. A Very Gay Day. Sunday was one of the gayest days I have ever had. Well I told him what I thought I would do in that situation. We talked for a while longer, and then we said our good byes. My team is not as crazy and we don't do crazy costumes. But my team is REALLY gay. Everyone is gay and everyone is very open about i...I am ...
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One Step at a Time: Pride Overload .... so far
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One Step at a Time. I am 53 and an out gay father from BC, Canada. My wife found out I was gay six years ago; much drama ensued but we achieved a reasonably non-adversarial divorce. Woo-hoo! I now try to balance my new sex and social life with family, career and LGBTQ social activism. I am mainly living on my own because my three adult kids are now making their way in the world. I now am an LTR having met my soulmate and am embarking on the most exciting phase of my journey so far! Friday, June 19, 2015.