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My Submissive Self: September 2008
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Monday, September 22, 2008. No such thing as perfection. Well, it didn't work out. Kinda crashed and burned, even. Can't say I'm surprised. Another emotional cripple. Must be the 13th tribe of Israel. I was a bit disappointed for a while, just because I really never meet anyone to get excited over. But I think I really jumped the gun on that one anyway. He didn't really merit the excitement. Maybe I gotta get outta here, LOL. Links to this post. Tuesday, September 9, 2008. Betwixt and between. I don'...
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My Submissive Self: May 2008
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Saturday, May 24, 2008. Who can't get no satisfaction? I took care of the not enough sex problem. In spades! Links to this post. Friday, May 23, 2008. I'm a loser, baby. Feeling a bit of a loser today. I hate that feeling. It's all part of the ups and downs of my life lately. I know that I create my own situations, I don't have anyone else to blame. But I really wish I could find that quiet place inside myself. That part of me that knows. Knows what to do, what I even want. Meanwhile, A. is actually ...
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No one of consequence: March 2011
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No one of consequence. Tuesday, March 8, 2011. Hamlet and Lorali's Pornotopia has passed from the blogosphere. I'll be removing my link so the asshole link spammer who's squatted their account won't get any trivial traffic. Links to this post. Subscribe to: Posts (Atom). An average guy who's managed to make an extraordinary relationship. I am to quote someone "The Most Awesomest Man Ever". View my complete profile. Schvinging and Rigging sites. FetLife - better with Fet. Places to go, people to shag.
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No one of consequence: February 2014
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No one of consequence. Friday, February 14, 2014. If you are in a shell. Thank you internet for bringing me zefrank. My dating games always start with me in a shell for some strange reason. Links to this post. Wednesday, February 12, 2014. Well that cleared up some time. I'm apparently going to have some free time to start dating in the near future. Eris and I are fine, it just seems that another erstwhile relationship has gone belly up. Links to this post. Subscribe to: Posts (Atom). Of Jello and Leather.
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No one of consequence: Winning at life
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No one of consequence. Friday, September 5, 2014. I recently had a dear friend accuse me of 'winning at life'. Here was the start of that conversation which I found quite droll and thought provoking all at once. Friend: [talking about competitive mindsets] It's not a fucking competition. Me: Yes it is! I'm winning the fucking gold! Friend: Well yeah, not only are you hot, but you won the wife lottery too. Me: And I still keep practicing my fucking, can't let my title lapse. Thank you btw. I haven't, well...
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My Submissive Self: November 2008
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Monday, November 10, 2008. It took me a while, and a lot of thinking, and talking about it. But in the end I realized: I knew all along that I wanted to take the next step with Mr. C. Whatever it was. I just needed to get comfortable with the idea. It was mine to ask for, and I did need to ask. I have placed the keys to the kingdom in the hands of Cheetah. From today, he is the master who leads me and tests me and protects me and enables me and helps me to develop and grow, to reach my rightful place.
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No one of consequence: June 2010
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No one of consequence. Tuesday, June 1, 2010. Not that you'll be surprised. But I predict a less than kink-filled summer. Responsible parenting. I find myself not wanting to miss a moment of my children's summer fun when they are the perfect age(s) for enjoying it. This will cut into my kink/swing/bdsm time quite a bit. However, I don't think I'll regret it in twenty to thirty years. Links to this post. Subscribe to: Posts (Atom). View my complete profile. Schvinging and Rigging sites.
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No one of consequence: May 2010
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No one of consequence. Saturday, May 8, 2010. Back on the scene. And I have been spending more time with the BDSM. Crowd than the swing crowd. Kink people are upfront about what they're seeking. The BDSM crowd don't have to get smashed to seek what they desire. The BDSM crowd also starts earlier (we turn into pumpkins at midnight). Tonight, we're going to a BDSM-themed swing event. Wish us luck, or question our sanity. Links to this post. Subscribe to: Posts (Atom). View my complete profile.
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No one of consequence: The adults in the room
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No one of consequence. Saturday, April 19, 2014. The adults in the room. I was at a local BSDM munch(a meet and greet in street clothes) with a friend when she remarked to another guest "TMAME and Eris. Do poly better than anyone I know." Our table guest asked a very good question: "How does that work? I had to collect my thoughts and explain it to a complete stranger and neophyte to the BDSM/poly world what we did. We still love to date each other. The best piece of advice I ever got was "Never stop...