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Archive for April, 2009. 8216;devastation’- Webster didn’t quite nail it. What’s in a word? Devastation- the state of being desolate, as in, “I was devastated by my partner’s affair”. For anyone who’s been through that, we know that that doesn’t begin to describe the meaning of devastation. April 14, 2009 at 2:24 pm. Tips for having a great match.com date. Tips for having a successful match.com date. April 13, 2009 at 10:54 am. Through the Dark Tunnel of Infidelity. April 13, 2009 at 9:28 am.
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Tips for having a great match.com date. April 13, 2009 at 10:54 am. So, the first point of advice is to try and choose an interesting person! I would email back and forth a few times and determine if the person seemed interesting, and had a pleasant sense of humor. The serious, negative, resentful people needed to work out their issues- without me. I mis-judged a few and did get stuck listening to all the horrible things his wife had done. And you know what? Then get yourself psyched! On the way to the d...
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8216;devastation’- Webster didn’t quite nail it. April 14, 2009 at 2:24 pm. I had read from a heart-broken woman that the word “devastated” didn’t begin to describe how miserable she felt after she learned of her husband’s infidelity. That struck a cord with me. My life had been turned upside down and my pain and injuries went so much deeper- I hurt so, so much more than a word could describe. I had wanted to read soothing stories from other women- how an affair had improved communication skills with the...
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Through the Dark Tunnel of Infidelity. April 13, 2009 at 9:28 am. How could my life change so abruptly like that? No one had been able to help me the first several months. They tried. They gathered the pieces of my scattered self and tried to re-attach them, but nothing could adhere to emptiness. It was up to me to re-establish the center- to bring about a point of cohesiveness. Without the “me” intact, there was nothing to attach the parts on to. And on this October evening, sitting in the depressing lo...
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How will this all turn out…? I am trying hard to get the difficult balance between being supportive and caring but also living for myself, but it is difficult when there is the pressure of an ill adult to think about in addition to two small children (not to mention myself! It could be worse………. By tobeconfirmed on October 19, 2008. Leave a Reply Cancel reply. Enter your comment here. Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:. Address never made public). Notify me of new comments via email.
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How will this all turn out…? Judge not, lest ye be judged. So now when my wife is talking with men that I know find her attractive, I imagine all sorts of scenarios based on what I would do in that situation and it ties me up in knots. Talk about double-standards! Probably because I have a history of having affairs and getting away with them, so I expect her to do the same. So what have I learnt from this post? I have low self-esteem that I only seem to be able to assuage through female attention. You ar...
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How will this all turn out…? Judge not, lest ye be judged. Bull;February 5, 2008 • 1 Comment. So now when my wife is talking with men that I know find her attractive, I imagine all sorts of scenarios based on what I would do in that situation and it ties me up in knots. Talk about double-standards! Probably because I have a history of having affairs and getting away with them, so I expect her to do the same. So what have I learnt from this post? Bull;January 31, 2008 • 2 Comments. Me sex (honest – ...
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A breakththrough!! | To Be Confirmed
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How will this all turn out…? 1) I tried to put it aside. I told myself that it was my paranoia and anxiety that was creating the negative feelings and it was nothing to do with anything anyone else was doing to me. This didn’t work initially (although it almost did! 2) Talked about how I felt. 4) I accepted responsibility for how I was feeling. 5) I reflected on my relationship with my wife and focused on all of the good things. My habit in the past has been to doubt the positives in our relationship and...
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How will this all turn out…? I like lists – I tend to think of important things and then forget them when I think of something else (usually not as important! So here is a list of the things that I want to cover with my counsellor (in the order I think of them, not necessarily priority):. Why do I need the pressure of a significant deadline or ultimatum to take action, even when I have known all along what needed doing? My resentment towards my kids. My resentment towards my wife. Enter your comment here.