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FreeNLPTips: April 2007
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A free collection of NLP tools, tips and tricks. Monday, 23 April 2007. These days it's very popular to be a victim. Whenever you hear or read a news report you will encounter justifications for outrageous actions based upon logic that goes like this:. He/She/They/Someone hurt me first and worse, and that's why I mugged/robbed/stabbed/bombed him/her/them/someone. If you meet people acting as victims when you are coaching (and you almost certainly will -. He/She/You made me feel.". Tuesday, 17 April 2007.
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FreeNLPTips: September 2007
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A free collection of NLP tools, tips and tricks. Sunday, 30 September 2007. What Is The SCORE? Here is a simple approach to ensure you capture key information when coaching someone through a problem. SCORE stands for S. Is it a tension in the head from constant frowning, a cramping in the stomach? Some people when they get frustrated or depressed go into a self-talk loop ( Self-Talk Posting. If this individual does, what words does he/she say in his/her head? Monday, 24 September 2007. Anchoring works be...
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FreeNLPTips: There's Thinking and Thinking
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A free collection of NLP tools, tips and tricks. Monday, 15 October 2007. There's Thinking and Thinking. The reasons are more profound than possibly you had considered. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). Add to Technorati Favourites. The Cardiff NLP Practice Group. NLP and Other Stuff. Theres Thinking and Thinking. I'm interested in how people make meaning out of their encounters with the world and the beliefs they form as a result. View my complete profile.
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FreeNLPTips: Influence
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A free collection of NLP tools, tips and tricks. Monday, 29 October 2007. This individual approach to influence is based on two untrue assumptions:. The more passionate I am the easier it is to convince other people. The best way to persuade people is to tell them repeatedly why my ideas are better than theirs. To round if off here is a fable from Aesop:. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). Add to Technorati Favourites. The Cardiff NLP Practice Group. NLP and Other Stuff. Theres Thinking and Thinking.
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FreeNLPTips: The Dancing SCORE
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A free collection of NLP tools, tips and tricks. Monday, 22 October 2007. One of the original greats of NLP) allows direct access to the knowledge without language that we all have, and in every single instance I have used this approach I have found that one of the things people know without language is the solution to their problem. Previously I have described the SCORE diagnostic model ( Posting. Having described all this I have to tell you I have never taken anyone through this exact procedure. In...
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FreeNLPTips: What Is The SCORE?
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A free collection of NLP tools, tips and tricks. Sunday, 30 September 2007. What Is The SCORE? Here is a simple approach to ensure you capture key information when coaching someone through a problem. SCORE stands for S. Is it a tension in the head from constant frowning, a cramping in the stomach? Some people when they get frustrated or depressed go into a self-talk loop ( Self-Talk Posting. If this individual does, what words does he/she say in his/her head? Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom).
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FreeNLPTips: Sneaky Influence
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A free collection of NLP tools, tips and tricks. Tuesday, 23 October 2007. When you deepen the tone of your voice your speech can be interpreted as a command. So if I use bold italic text to indicate a deeper tone of voice: "Sit down. Many of the things you need to know". This skill needs to be practised regularly to make it fully useable. A double bind is a language construction that gives an illusion of choice but only an illusion. For example: "Would you like to pay now or later? The last one was the ...
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FreeNLPTips: August 2007
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A free collection of NLP tools, tips and tricks. Monday, 27 August 2007. The best times to use vague language are when emotions are high. If someone is angry or anxious for example he/she is likely to reject some or all of a direct message. Have you ever tried telling someone who is angry to calm down, or telling someone who is anxious to cheer up? It rarely works. Instead here are a couple of simple approaches that may work better:. Friday, 17 August 2007. Receiving the gift of a fish) and a capability.
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FreeNLPTips: Good Intention
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A free collection of NLP tools, tips and tricks. Monday, 19 November 2007. Whenever you encounter unhelpful or unpleasant behaviour in someone you’re coaching you should ask yourself one question: “What is good about this behaviour? And if you can determine what the good intentions are you have a way of reaching agreement and also a way of improving the individual's behaviour. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). Add to Technorati Favourites. The Cardiff NLP Practice Group. NLP and Other Stuff.
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FreeNLPTips: Circle of Excellence
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A free collection of NLP tools, tips and tricks. Sunday, 9 September 2007. Here is a simple technique that anyone can use to feel positive at any time in any context. The more you practice it the easier it becomes and the more pronounced the effects:. Choose a state that you want to be able to access at will. Typically people choose states like creativity, focus, optimism or enthusiasm. Recall a time when you experienced that state. Are the colours in what you see brighter or dimmer? When ready step back...
