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Leaving Nothing Unsaid: August 2015
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Healing Our Family One Day at a Time. Tuesday, August 11, 2015. Self-compassion is a difficult thing. I really struggle with thoughts of "If I don't do everything right then B. will use it as an excuse not to work." or "If I can't manage this then how can I expect B. to? Posted by Wife Progressing. Recovery from Betrayal Trauma. Subscribe to: Posts (Atom). Fear Has Held Me Prisoner. Anger Is A Girl's Best Friend. Boundaries, Compassion and Trusting My Gut. Why I Write *edited*. A Different Kind of Grief.
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Leaving Nothing Unsaid: On Forgiveness
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Healing Our Family One Day at a Time. Wednesday, June 17, 2015. I have so much anger lately that I knew that I needed to blog. I knelt tonight to pray and asked Heavenly Father what I needed to blog about. Forgiveness was the answer He gave me loud and clear. There was no hesitation or waiting for the answer. Forgiveness. Woo-wee! That is a subject that is hard for me to write about. Posted by Wife Progressing. Recovery from Betrayal Trauma. June 18, 2015 at 12:31 AM. Forgiving Ourselves by Wendy Ulrich.
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Leaving Nothing Unsaid: Her Story
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Healing Our Family One Day at a Time. I know I have shared parts of my story on the blog, but after reading more on recovery, I feel the need to share my whole story, or my whole story up until this point. It has been almost two years ago now since I started my journey to recovery and I still have a long ways to go. You know what though? I am stronger than I remember being. You want to hear the most remarkable part for me though? My story does not end here, but rather it is just beginning. Triggers are a...
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Leaving Nothing Unsaid: March 2015
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Healing Our Family One Day at a Time. Sunday, March 29, 2015. My Cup Runneth Over. He has to be the most kind and patient person I have met in a long time. I can only imagine how the weight of the trials in the ward weigh on him, but he never makes me feel like mine are any less important than anyone else's. I am truly blessed by the bounty of amazing people in my life. Posted by Wife Progressing. Recovery from Betrayal Trauma. Wednesday, March 25, 2015. The week after that they closed our physical offic...
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Leaving Nothing Unsaid: May 2015
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Healing Our Family One Day at a Time. Monday, May 25, 2015. B said something to me today that made me wonder if our marriage can ever be repaired. He said (I'm paraphrasing), "I guess that you just aren't what I want you to be." It really struck a nerve because that's what I have felt our entire marriage, that somehow I don't measure up, that I'm not enough. It hurts so much to hear him actually say it. He wants me to trust him, but then blames me because he can't be trusted? Posted by Wife Progressing.
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Leaving Nothing Unsaid: My Boundaries
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Healing Our Family One Day at a Time. I am new at writing boundaries, but this is what I have for now. These will change as we get further in recovery. 1 - I have the right to a home that is emotionally, spiritually, financially and physically safe. 2 - I have the right to a husband that honors his marriage covenants. 3 - I have the right to a home and family that is a safe place to talk about how I feel. 1 - There will be no pornography in our home. If you are not actively working recovery every day I w...
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Leaving Nothing Unsaid: Battle Fatigue
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Healing Our Family One Day at a Time. Tuesday, May 5, 2015. I want to connect with my husband. I want to have a happy marriage. I believe that those two things are possible. I just need some safety and consistency before they will happen. I believe that as we both get more recovery under our belts that our relationship will become our focus. Right now all I can do is concentrate on is my own recovery and being the best me I can be. Weary to the bone,. Posted by Wife Progressing. May 6, 2015 at 10:07 PM.
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Leaving Nothing Unsaid: Couch Time: On Being a Failure
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Healing Our Family One Day at a Time. Tuesday, June 9, 2015. Couch Time: On Being a Failure. Here we are, in the therapists office…you're sitting with your yellow legal pad and a thoughtful expression while I'm laying on the couch crying about what a failure I am. Did you see all the excuses in parentheses? Step 1: Recognize there is a problem. Check! I could sure use the power of strong prayers to open my heart and help Him work his miracles. Posted by Wife Progressing. Recovery from Betrayal Trauma.