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124; Comments RSS. A summary of Open Fidelity. Posted on February 1st, 2008. OK, I’ve talked about the problems with both monogamy and cheating. Is there another way? Yes – it’s called Open Fidelity. I think it’s time for an overview of what I mean by Open Fidelity. The following statements sum it up. People can love more than one person at a time. There are people in […]. Filed under: Introduction. 124; Comments Off. Problems caused by cheating. Posted on January 27th, 2008. Filed under: Introduction.
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Open Fidelity » incipient affairs
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124; Comments RSS. Helen’s story: part 2. Posted on February 18th, 2008. In the last post I told you about Helen, David, Julie and Miriam and looked into what options Helen had, once she realised she was falling in love with Julie. But enough about the possibilities: on to what actually happened. Helen didn’t feel guilty about spending time with Julie – how could such bliss be […]. Filed under: Stories. 124; 1 Comment. Helen’s story: part 1. Posted on February 15th, 2008. Filed under: Stories.
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124; Comments RSS. Philippa, Jennie and Don’s story: part 1. Posted on February 22nd, 2008. This is the extraordinary story of a marriage that has survived through one partner’s gender reassignment, the other partner not only having several affairs but also discovering that she liked to be dominated, and the addition of a third partner to form a committed three-way partnership. Philippa and Jennie have been together for over 33 […]. Filed under: Stories. 124; Comments Off. Problems caused by cheating.
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124; Comments RSS. Philippa, Jennie and Don’s story: part 3. Posted on February 29th, 2008. In the last two posts I told you about Jennie and Philippa, who had managed to stay together (eventually) through Jennie’s affairs and Philippa’s transition from a male to a female body. The year or more of upheaval and communication helped them to work through not just Philippa’s gender identity issues but also Jennie’s difficulties […]. Filed under: Stories. 124; Comments Off. Posted on January 17th, 2008.
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Open Fidelity » Media
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124; Comments RSS. Steering the polyamory bandwagon. Posted on March 7th, 2008. You may have seen the link from here to Alan’s excellent Polyamory in the News blog. Last week Alan commented on a very interesting article in Wired by Regina Lynn, Internet Pushes Polyamory to Its ‘Tipping Point’. The Wired article suggested that the term polyamory has swept to mainstream acceptance. Alan makes an important point […]. Filed under: Media. 124; Comments Off. There is another way! Posted on January 23rd, 2008.
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Open Fidelity » honesty
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124; Comments RSS. Russell’s story: part 1. Posted on April 1st, 2008. Russell is 38-year-old entertainer who finds it difficult to be monogamous and is now in an open relationship. This is the first part of his story, before he met his current partner, in his own words. At the age of 20 I met my future partner of 9 years. Sylvia was an arty type and […]. Filed under: Stories. 124; Comments Off. A summary of Open Fidelity. Posted on February 1st, 2008. Filed under: Introduction. 124; Comments Off.
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Open Fidelity » definition
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124; Comments RSS. Posted on January 13th, 2008. A lot of the ideas in this blog overlap with those of polyamory, a relatively new term which is derived from ‘many loves’. Open Fidelity and polyamory are variants of one basic idea: honest, responsible non-monogamy. One definition of polyamory is “the desire, practice, or acceptance of having more than one loving, intimate relationship at […]. Filed under: Introduction. 124; 5 Comments. Terminology: monogamous, partner, infidelity. 124; 2 Comments.
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124; Comments RSS. Background to this blog. Posted on December 13th, 2007. This blog is part of a larger process that was originally the writing of a book. I started researching and writing in early 2004 and interviewed a whole range of people over the next couple of years. By 2006 I began to feel that a full-length book on this project was going to take quite […]. Filed under: About. 124; 3 Comments. 10 realistic rules for good non-monogamous relationships. A crazy little thing called compersion.
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Open Fidelity » faithfulness
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124; Comments RSS. Posted on April 14th, 2008. One of the key principles of Open Fidelity is to do with promises, and I want to look at this in more detail here. There are three main aspects: keeping the promises you make avoiding making promises that you don’t think you will be able to keep renegotiating your promises rather than breaking them All […]. Filed under: Key principles. 124; 1 Comment. A summary of Open Fidelity. Posted on February 1st, 2008. Filed under: Introduction. 124; Comments Off.
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Open Fidelity » bisexual
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124; Comments RSS. Helen’s story: part 2. Posted on February 18th, 2008. In the last post I told you about Helen, David, Julie and Miriam and looked into what options Helen had, once she realised she was falling in love with Julie. But enough about the possibilities: on to what actually happened. Helen didn’t feel guilty about spending time with Julie – how could such bliss be […]. Filed under: Stories. 124; 1 Comment. Helen’s story: part 1. Posted on February 15th, 2008. Filed under: Stories.
