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The Clothed Lie: September 2013
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Please fill out the poll: https:/ plus.google.com/u/0/104295959651355446533/posts/UURMA2PFDj5. BDSM – Outing, rationality and pain (A). Wednesday, September 25, 2013. A) The first argument. I feel hurt sometimes. It is not really your business why this is so, but it is – for the sake of this blog sufficient to know that it is; and when you are as human as I am, it will be a very recognizable emotion, one we are all familiar with and which we try to avoid if possible. Outing and the sins of our fathers.
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The Clothed Lie: April 2014
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Please fill out the poll: https:/ plus.google.com/u/0/104295959651355446533/posts/UURMA2PFDj5. What if your partner does not consent? Saturday, April 26, 2014. This blog entry is part of the series on BDSM and psychology. As ever, we are exploring, not rejecting. Please feel no offence when we address things that might hurt you; it is not intended. The fear of being a 'not-normal' person. Beside, even amongst kinky insiders, old age beliefs regarding gender duality and the classical male-female roles are...
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The Clothed Lie: October 2013
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Please fill out the poll: https:/ plus.google.com/u/0/104295959651355446533/posts/UURMA2PFDj5. Uncertainty and shyness - essential bottom qualities, or rather ritual symbols? Thursday, October 3, 2013. 8216;Uncertainty and shyness’ is part on the series on BDSM and Psychology. Keywords: ritual play, Topping, bottoming, real and true BDSM). Does BDSM empower bottoms? Moreover, issues like self esteem, assertiveness or modesty rather seems to be a general issue of ones personality than that it would be som...
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The Clothed Lie: December 2013
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Please fill out the poll: https:/ plus.google.com/u/0/104295959651355446533/posts/UURMA2PFDj5. A good moral is a sexually repressive moral, isn't it? A Christmas Trip to India. Tuesday, December 24, 2013. A spontaneous blog on Christmas eve …. Qustion: “Why aren't there as many Indian porn stars”. Answer: “Because Indians have good morals and to do or be a part of the porn industry is considered "bad form". And it's considered a "dirty" thing to do.”. Indians have ‘good’ morals. Trust, nearness, honesty ...
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Kalliope - Musings from the Dominion of Lord Cameron: October 2013
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Kalliope - Musings from the Dominion of Lord Cameron. Wednesday, 16 October 2013. To be with you on Isles so grand. The sun is hot, we lay on sand. Our bodies sweating from the love. We shared until we had enough. And then the simple rain bird sings. A song of joy and rest it brings. We listen to it, open and amazed. Our eyes are closed, yet still we gaze. How does this little birdie know;. Our faith and curse, our heart and soul? It’s magic all around. Between us too, which keeps us bound. Would you exp...
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The Clothed Lie: July 2014
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Please fill out the poll: https:/ plus.google.com/u/0/104295959651355446533/posts/UURMA2PFDj5. The dark side of BDSM - and what vanillas can learn from it. Sunday, July 27, 2014. In the blog ‘When your sin is to change – How BDSM impacts (y)our reality’ we found three points with regard to the diminishing tolerance in and towards the BDSM culture. Today we look further into the phenomena that “. Observing BDSM and its effects: is it sound? Is there still not something unusual about it? We in the Dominion...
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The Clothed Lie: February 2014
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Please fill out the poll: https:/ plus.google.com/u/0/104295959651355446533/posts/UURMA2PFDj5. On BDSM-Dominance, -submission and Physics. Friday, February 14, 2014. 8220;BDSM-D/s and Physics” is part of the series on BDSM and philosophy. Recently a sub wrote me that there are as many styles of dominance as there are dominants. On face value this seems to make sense, but is it also true? The limits of definitions. How does power exchange work? For an answer we would normally start by looking at how the d...
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The Clothed Lie: June 2014
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Please fill out the poll: https:/ plus.google.com/u/0/104295959651355446533/posts/UURMA2PFDj5. Psychology tool bag - Powerful ideas for training bottoms. Monday, June 30, 2014. One of my mentees asked me a good question: “What is your most powerful psychological training for subs? Where is bottoming about? So, no abuse, or abusive manipulation. It is not that I think that many tops have an issue with this, but I just want to be thorough and emphasize that only safe, sane and sound BDSM can give us a ...
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The Clothed Lie: Sir Cameron - face to face ...
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Please fill out the poll: https:/ plus.google.com/u/0/104295959651355446533/posts/UURMA2PFDj5. Sir Cameron - face to face . All expression is out of the fullness of our psyche and as such out of humanity in which we partake. This also goes for sexual expression, which functions best when embedded in relationships that do justice to our mutual urges, mental desires and spiritual wonder. Probably this creativity in ritual role play is karmic work for some of us and not for all. And why should it? Sir Camer...
