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Mo' Homo: Radar
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Going Beyond the Gay. Jun 1, 2013. Some people spend every minute of their active days noticing the people looking at them. Maybe it is the touch of makeup he is wearing or maybe she is paranoid because she is still so closeted and uncomfortable, or maybe because the danger of being gay is still so very real in our society. But they walk down the street and they worry. But I also can't help but wonder sometimes what's wrong with me, that everyone else pings on the radar, and I don't. Subscribe to: Post C...
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Mo' Homo: Complexes/Femme Invisibility
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Going Beyond the Gay. Jan 28, 2013. Last night I had a dream where I was at some sort of summer camp and all the lesbians I've ever known were outside playing/having sex/joking around/ whatever. In the water trough/pool area outside. I felt hurt, embarrassed, left out. My friend Lauren was with them even though she's always been straight and since we were the closest, I joked with her first, calling across the courtyard. Lauren, what the hell? It from me left me reeling - empty handed and wanting to cry.
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Mo' Homo: May 2013
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Going Beyond the Gay. May 12, 2013. If I could perform slam poetry. I would stand up with the women. Whom I admire so greatly. With simplicity about complexity. The spoken word is our. Passed down from mouths. To ears to hearts. Stories of victories, losses,. Lovers, and legends,. All preserved throughout generations. With rhyme and rhythm. If I could speak with such. I would tell the world of my own. Of my misdeeds, my misheards. My mis-nameds, my Miss Less. I would tell of how I got to be. Testing 1,2,3.
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Mo' Homo: Photos
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Going Beyond the Gay. Oct 28, 2012. Aneke, a blogger I respected and adored, though is no longer on this website, frequently posted "My Day in Pictures." I loved this idea, but never got around to doing it myself. Until today. I have a camera on my phone and my phone goes everywhere with me. Why am I not. Today was the most gorgeous day: lots of sunshine, not much wind, tons of animals, and the perfect sort of time to walk around and sit outside and mess around with Layla (guitar, not a lady, gutterminds).
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Mo' Homo: November 2013
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Going Beyond the Gay. Nov 17, 2013. Often, I have tried to figure out the moment I decided I was gay, or I first knew I had a girl crush, or I knew I was attracted to girls, at least sexually because I fantasized about them while I made out with my boyfriends - going back in time to try to understand why I never knew I was gay. And then I met someone. And then she started pushing, asking about having sex with men and why shouldn't I just try it? She kept talking about how much she enjoyed it, how much sh...
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Mo' Homo: Personalities
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Going Beyond the Gay. Jan 24, 2013. Victoria over at Musings of a Lesbian Writer. Picked up this fun link from a blog she reads, where you type in your blog address and it tells you what sort of personality you have. I thought it would be fun to try. Try your own Typealyzer here. It was pretty spot on, however, I think my brain would be more focused toward the intuition/symbols quadrant rather than organizational. The only time I'm ever organized is when I'm working at a desk job :). Notable ESFJs: Harry...
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Mo' Homo: Sugarbutch/Poly
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Going Beyond the Gay. Dec 29, 2012. I just want to take a minute and talk about Sugarbutch. Sinclair has been cultivating fantastic interviews about poly life and I am thoroughly enjoying all of them. Poly freaks me out. I've talked about this before. There's so much in me that would be interested in poly with the right people, but also I'm so afraid of not being enough (reoccurring theme much? Losing love/getting walked out on/. I have severe insecurity issues because my girlfriends keep going straight.
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Mo' Homo: Everything has Changed
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Going Beyond the Gay. Nov 2, 2014. It is, actually, since I started this blog in a place of sarcasm and jaded bitterness wherein I truely believed I was working on myself because happiness with another person just wasn't in the cards for me. But all I can do is make it worse. We fight more often-she goes out with her friends and I work late. I ask, where she is with her friends. "It's up to you." Comes the reply. It's not the one I want. "I'm kinda drunk.". I try to be tactful. I shouldn't. A girl in her...
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Mo' Homo: December 2012
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Going Beyond the Gay. Dec 31, 2012. When I got my hair cut a few days ago I bought a new product to put in it and the kids I work with have noticed. "Your hair smells good! Your hair smells like apples! Your hair smells like cotton candy! It doesn't smell like cotton candy! He reminds me helpfully. I'll keep it in mind. Just look at that Drummer! Dec 30, 2012. I got the phone call. The one I was half-expecting to come at three am from a sobbing girl. And she just spat it at me! I am, in age, between my b...
