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5 Ways To Be A Better Listener | Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC
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Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC. Individual Therapy, Premarital Preparation, Couples Counseling, Parent Support. Contact, Forms, Fees. 5 Ways To Be A Better Listener. Everybody’s talkin’ at me. Can’t hear a word they’re sayin’. Only the echos of my mind. Remember that Fred Neil song? Popularized by others – chiefly Harry Nilsson in Midnight Cowboy. 8211; and covered by over 100 other artists, that lonesome feeling it evokes is perfect for today. So, listen up folks here’s the low down on listening. I invite y...
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Media | Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC
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Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC. Individual Therapy, Premarital Preparation, Couples Counseling, Parent Support. Contact, Forms, Fees. Article in New Home Source. I was invited to contribute to an article about how couples can stay together through he design/build of a new home. Australian Women’s Weekly. Extensively quoted in article on cheating web site Ashley Madison. See the article and my comments, here: Australian Women’s Weekly Sept 2013. 3 March 2013 – How To Help When Friends Divorce. Will be availab...
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The #1 Reason Marriages Fail | Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC
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Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC. Individual Therapy, Premarital Preparation, Couples Counseling, Parent Support. Contact, Forms, Fees. The #1 Reason Marriages Fail. And no, it’s NOT what you think! Despite the fact that numerous couples interviewed after divorce cite things like. And despite the fact that numerous autopsy studies after a divorce cite things like. Getting in for the wrong reasons. Lack of individual identity. Becoming lost in the roles. Not having a shared vision of success. Ira was still ench...
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Contact, Forms, Fees | Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC
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Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC. Individual Therapy, Premarital Preparation, Couples Counseling, Parent Support. Contact, Forms, Fees. Contact, Forms, Fees. If we’re growing,. We’re always going to be. Out of our comfort zone. VSEE An encrypted technology, see https:/ vsee.com/. 1674 Hill Road, Suite 14, Boise, Idaho 83702. Length is 90 minutes. Clarify the presenting problem. Begin to design treatment plan. Begin to set goals. Review payment and Insurance. Length is 60 minutes. Review progress to date. Pleas...
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Thriving Through Tough Times | Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC
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Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC. Individual Therapy, Premarital Preparation, Couples Counseling, Parent Support. Contact, Forms, Fees. Thriving Through Tough Times. Your partner is going through a rough patch. You suspect they may be slipping into a bit of a depression. Maybe a chronic injury is preventing much-needed regular exercise. Maybe they’ve been skipped over for a promotion again and now feel both undervalued and trapped. You recognize your partner might be stuck in a Part. I could do better! How can...
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Living Empathically | Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC
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Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC. Individual Therapy, Premarital Preparation, Couples Counseling, Parent Support. Contact, Forms, Fees. A thoughtful reader responded to my Teaching Empathy to Children. Post with this comment:. It’s such a great question I wanted to use it as the focus for this final post on the subject of empathy. I’d also love to open up a conversation I am sure there will be readers who have ideas to add. Hit the Leave a Reply link at the beginning of this post. We’d all benefit. However, to...
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Beyond Emotion Coaching-Listening For Your Child’s Needs | Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC
https://gemmautting.com/2015/05/27/beyond-emotion-coaching-listening-for-your-childs-needs
Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC. Individual Therapy, Premarital Preparation, Couples Counseling, Parent Support. Contact, Forms, Fees. Beyond Emotion Coaching-Listening For Your Child’s Needs. Because children aren’t just small adults, listening to a child is a unique skill. Not knowing this can get parents and kids off to a rocky start. This is a terrifically helpful book on the subject of listening to your child, and it’s based on (to my mind) an even more wonderful book, Between Parent and Child. However, ...
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Teaching Empathy to Children | Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC
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Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC. Individual Therapy, Premarital Preparation, Couples Counseling, Parent Support. Contact, Forms, Fees. Teaching Empathy to Children. Four year olds Zoe and Ben are playing in the wading pool at the park. All is peaceful. Well, as peaceful as a pond full of preschoolers can be. Suddenly there’s a wail of indignation and the mums look up. Ben drops the cup, puts both hands on his face and bursts out crying. Now the mums are up. What would you do if Ben was your child? What might ...
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One Small Step Toward Self Compassion | Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC
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Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC. Individual Therapy, Premarital Preparation, Couples Counseling, Parent Support. Contact, Forms, Fees. One Small Step Toward Self Compassion. This one small step. Can transform your inner landscape from. The dark and narrow back-streets of anger, criticism, fear and judgment. Into a bright and spacious landscape of compassionate curiosity. What’s to loose, right? So, please hear me through and give it a go before you decide either that. Here’s the idea. Say, “. As Thich Nhat Ha...
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Who’s Listening? | Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC
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Gemma Utting MA, LMFT, CLC. Individual Therapy, Premarital Preparation, Couples Counseling, Parent Support. Contact, Forms, Fees. Ever considered what an astonishingly powerful tool deep listening really is? The summer holidays are coming. David turns to his wife Judith over breakfast and sighs;. I’m dreading summer this year. See if you can hear how Judith responds differently to David depending upon what Part of her is doing the listening. Or, to put it another way, depending upon who Judith is. And Ju...
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