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Leah's Life: Ch..ch...ch...changes
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Friday, October 19, 2012. Quick interlude on my parents - things went well with them at the wedding. We were pleasantly surprised that they took the time and resources to come to my mother-in-law's funeral. My father said "you're both our kids, we love you and you need us." Oh how things have changed. Our summer was also filled with moving J from his apartment to the house I have rented for a number of years, dealing with some of his mom's stuff and very busy work lives. Your sister thriver ,. Ts Life...
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Leah's Life: Beautiful Surprise a Year Ago
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Wednesday, August 31, 2011. Beautiful Surprise a Year Ago. I couldn't have imagined some of the things that happened during this past year. I had not a clue they were coming. Not a hint. Little did I know that when I sat down at that table that a friendship would start that would blossom into a relationship and into being head over heals in love. Now I can't imagine my life without DL (is it too sappy to call him DL for dear love? I pray that the year to come is filled with strength, hope, love, courage,...
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Leah's Life: Mom - A Complicated Word...Complicated Relationship...A Request for Advice
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Monday, February 28, 2011. Mom - A Complicated Word.Complicated Relationship.A Request for Advice. Things are more complicated when I think about my mother. Why? When they were at the house). So, the part of me that knows that she is a victim, that she is depressed and that she too is stuck feels sorry for her. How can I blame her? Yet, I'm her little girl and she didn't protect me. How could she not protect her little girl? So thus it is complicated. If your situation is similar how do you handle it?
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Leah's Life: A Taste of My New Family
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Friday, December 30, 2011. A Taste of My New Family. It feels nice to be building a relationship with a positive mother figure. I feel lucky to have her in my life and am glad that JE has a close relationship with her. (But am thankful that he isn't a mamas boy in the negative sense of the term.). Thanks for letting me share. Your sister survivor/thriver,. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). Male Life After Rape. Place to Be Heard. Ll of us Sheffelech. N Inch from Murder. Log Carnival Against Child Abuse.
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Leah's Life: Dealing with difficult memories
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Tuesday, September 17, 2013. Dealing with difficult memories. Guy Winch says that how we look at our difficult memories can help us heal. Lifehacker has an article about his idea. Utm campaign=socialflow lifehacker twitter&utm source=lifehacker twitter&utm medium=socialflow. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). Male Life After Rape. Place to Be Heard. Ll of us Sheffelech. N Inch from Murder. Eyond the Tears: A True Survivor's Story. Log Carnival Against Child Abuse. Hasing the Wild Goose. M Free at Last.
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Leah's Life: Joy!
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Saturday, March 12, 2011. Who was it that said "joy cometh in the morning? These days I feel like a new person and that a new day has dawned. I'm in a new relationship with all of the excitement that it brings. I feel so safe and comfortable with this person. When I shared my family issues he responded with such kindness and sincerity. We have shared a lot with each other, building on 6 months of friendship as we now date. I can't wait to see where this goes. Your sister thriver,. 7:52 PM, April 01, 2011.
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Leah's Life: More on My Mom - Update
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Monday, May 30, 2011. More on My Mom - Update. A couple of months ago I wrote a post. About the complicated and sad relationship that I have with my mother. Thanks again to all of you who commented and shared your own stories, they helped. From your hopeful sister survivor thriver,. I think that is a really fabulous idea! I hope that she follows through with it and that you are able to have a good discussion together. 3:45 PM, May 30, 2011. Http:/ a-true-story-of-abuse-lydia-taiwo.blogspot.com/. Elcome t...
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Leah's Life: My Body, Myself - Fear, Healing and Body Image
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Sunday, August 01, 2010. My Body, Myself - Fear, Healing and Body Image. As a survivor, I've often felt uncomfortable in my skin. Some reading I did earlier in my healing journey helped me understand that this is partly because my father's abuse began before I had an understanding of where my body began and ended (the abuse began around 2). I've heard that many survivors face this issue, regardless of the timing of the abuse. Important caveat - - - I do NOT believe that thinner is better. If you are ...
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Leah's Life: Excited to celebrate the renewal of the Torah and myself
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Tuesday, May 18, 2010. Excited to celebrate the renewal of the Torah and myself. If you celebrate I hope that your observance is filled with joy, growth and hope. Elizabeth @ If She Cry Out. I wish I had read this before Shavuot. I so like the idea of Shavuot being the scrolls of Torah and the scrolls of our life. As regards healing, I think they are reciprocal. Healing happens when we can see our lives in the words of Torah and Gods words of Torah in our lives. 8:41 AM, May 20, 2010. Male Life After Rape.
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Leah's Life: Need Your Advice as I Plan My Wedding
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Tuesday, November 22, 2011. Need Your Advice as I Plan My Wedding. The wedding planning has begun. We have a date, location, officiants and have begun many of the other items on the "to do" list. When we told my parents, they were supportive and excited for us. I wasn't completely surprised because our communication has been better, more respectful and more patient lately. Not all smooth sailing (what parent relationship is even before factoring abusiveness), but not a nightmare either. Maybe you could h...
