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Coming Out at 42. Saturday, May 19, 2012. Monday, February 14, 2011. There is the surface of things and the depths of things. There are at least two-sides to everything. Life is very three dimensional or maybe even multidimensional if you count the past and the future. At lunch the other day someone tucked in the shirt tag of a co-worker. She said, “was my fag tag sticking out.”. I remember that was a saying some twenty years ago (give or take). I remember saying it often. Posted by Layla Proudfoot at.
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Coming Out at 42. Saturday, May 19, 2012. Friday, January 28, 2011. The Tug of War…. When did that start? Maybe when I began to realize that his agreement was the key to having my children. That he has a lot of power over me still. My friend says to me in angry moments, “he’s not your daddy. You don’t need his permission.”. Those are the hands that tug toward the future, but they have to let go of the rope. Posted by Layla Proudfoot at. Friday, January 28, 2011. Links to this post. Posted by K Welliver.
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Coming Out at 42. Saturday, May 19, 2012. Tuesday, February 1, 2011. The contents of the backpack. Over the last several months, my backpack has gotten heavier and heavier. I usually have a book and some extra medicine and of course my purse (I am a purse carrying lesbian). Later, I added a tooth brush, my makeup (would that would make me a lipstick lesbian? That month of illusionary wealth left me in a “now what? Self-discovery is an essential ingredient to a meaningful life, of that, I am convinced....
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Coming Out at 42. Saturday, May 19, 2012. Thursday, February 17, 2011. My Grandmother’s China. When I was in my early twenties and just out of college, my grandmother flatly declared, “You might as well have the china. You will never find a man to suit you. You will never get married.”. However, as each relative fell one by one to wedded bliss, someone would inevitably say, “Well, it looks like you aren’t going to get the china.”. Did I mention that my grandmother didn’t cook? After doing some research, ...
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Coming Out at 42. Saturday, May 19, 2012. Sunday, March 20, 2011. Sometimes, You Just Need A Good Walk In The Woods. We have to take pictures for court to prove we have a nice home for the boys. We did. We have a nice home. It is clean and uncluttered. It is a home. I have to prove that to strangers. I will. I don't know. Maybe until I finally came to find myself? One tombstone read, "I'd rather be riding my Harley." I thought, "sing it brother! I would too." Maybe someday soon I will. Links to this post.
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Coming Out at 42. Saturday, May 19, 2012. Sunday, April 3, 2011. Buy Jesus the Cat and Other Stories at:. Http:/ www.amazon.com/dp/B0051BJ9E6. Posted by Layla Proudfoot at. Sunday, April 03, 2011. Links to this post. Posted by K Welliver. Saturday, May 19, 2012. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). There was an error in this gadget. There was an error in this gadget.
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Coming Out at 42. Saturday, May 19, 2012. Friday, March 11, 2011. And silence fell over the blog…. I try to hold onto the idea that in the end love is the most important thing. I will try to love those who aren’t acting very lovable right now. I try to remember that because people don’t agree with me doesn’t mean that they are intrinsically bad or wrong. When I am feeling defensive, it is easy to feel that they are bad or wrong. Posted by Layla Proudfoot at. Friday, March 11, 2011. Links to this post.
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Coming Out at 42. Saturday, May 19, 2012. Friday, January 14, 2011. If it was the latter and not the former, I haven't gotten my toaster yet. If it was the former and not the latter, my partner, someday wife, hasn't gotten hers either. It is a damned shame too because we need a toaster. I am not good at broiling bread in the oven and she doesn't cook. We could use that toaster. Posted by Layla Proudfoot at. Friday, January 14, 2011. Links to this post. Posted by K Welliver. Saturday, May 19, 2012.
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Coming Out at 42. Saturday, May 19, 2012. Wednesday, January 19, 2011. Seventeen Seconds to Homophobia . A friend asked me not to use that title. She said it was too much like a phrase she said to herself regarding a similar experience. Her phrase was seventeen seconds of Heaven. I guess that is the difference between a heterosexual kiss and a homosexual kiss. I mean have you really ever just experienced the feeling of a good pair of flip flops? Even the bumps along the way have been fairly surmountable&...