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The End of An Era
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The End of An Era. 11 years, 1 Marriage and a Divorce Later. Monday, December 08, 2008. I was talking to a friend who's going through a divorce and the thing is, you never know right, what's going to push a couple to divorce. They were one of those perfect couple, not one of those simpering I love you ones but reasonable, mature adults. The thing nobody tells you about marriage is that sometimes it can be so shatteringly lonely. Her stomach illness is not abating and she's in pain. The boy is missing his...
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The End of An Era : The end of posteverafter
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The End of An Era. 11 years, 1 Marriage and a Divorce Later. Wednesday, July 31, 2013. The end of posteverafter. 11 years, one silly long engagement, a wedding. Infidelity and a surreal afternoon of abuse later, I am getting a divorce from the boy. Since the last time I posted, I have discovered. The boy brought his mother and brother over to live with us. And they never left. Then the boy had an affair. In the traditional sense. With sex and all. It happened while I was going through IVF. Life on a Hill.
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The End of An Era
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The End of An Era. 11 years, 1 Marriage and a Divorce Later. Friday, September 06, 2013. A day after the boy hit me, I called in my contacts and got lawyer referrals. A week later, I shopped lawyers, divided our marriage assets and started working out the logistics of my sister's move to her new University for her brand spanking new Ph.D (so proud of her! Two weeks later, I got our asset division and embryo destruction forms notarized, retained a lawyer and filed for divorce. Food, In The Main. My life's...
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The End of An Era
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The End of An Era. 11 years, 1 Marriage and a Divorce Later. Wednesday, September 25, 2013. Today I divorced the boy. It took me exactly 59 days after the boy hit me to. Get a lawyer, divide our assets, get the boy to agree to the division and the destruction of the embryos, notarize our severance, and. Have a kindly old judge "dissolve our marriage and restore me to a state of single and never married". It's almost as if, by doing so, the 11 years of us never happened. Posted by Sheena Koshy.
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The End of An Era
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The End of An Era. 11 years, 1 Marriage and a Divorce Later. Saturday, October 05, 2013. Today, in response to an email I had sent a couple of weeks ago regarding our divorce, the boy. I wanna say that there are two regrets in my life - 1) cheating on you and 2) raising my hand on you. I have enjoyed my life with you and had the best time. I don't regret fighting the world for you. and wish you all the very best. Nothing will give me more pleasure than if I can help you if you EVER need anything. Went mi...
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The End of An Era
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The End of An Era. 11 years, 1 Marriage and a Divorce Later. Saturday, September 28, 2013. I knew I was compromising for a long time but I thought that was what marriages were about - compromise and hard work. The daily indignities, the frustrations over being passed over, the resentment, etc, etc - I thought they were part and parcel of married life. This is such a big AND. I didn't trust that I had it in me to hack it alone. I didn't trust my parents. I don't know why. I have to say, despite the varied...
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The End of An Era : The day after
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The End of An Era. 11 years, 1 Marriage and a Divorce Later. Thursday, September 26, 2013. It is amazing what this blog has meant to me. Such articulate rendering of the life I led with him. But when I think of all that transpired in my marriage (the cheating, the emotional withdrawal, the constant pushing away of my needs and the final physical abuse), I know, in spite of the maudlinness, that alternate universe is the crappy, less-than-perfect one. Posted by Sheena Koshy. Food, In The Main.
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The End of An Era : Thanksgiving!
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The End of An Era. 11 years, 1 Marriage and a Divorce Later. Wednesday, November 21, 2012. Love Love. Love. It's my favorite adopted holiday and I love all that it represents - food, family and fun! I am so grateful that this year I get to spend it with my little sister. We have decided to be brave and bought ourselves a 12 pound turkey. Nothing daunts me more in the culinary arena that baking an entire turkey. The boy, while a great help in the kitchen, is doing the 'can we do it? Turkey with curry gravy.
