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Oh, I'm not their mom: April 2012
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Oh, I'm not their mom. Thursday, April 12, 2012. Oh goodness. I don't know even where to begin. I can feel the downward pull of depression in the pit of my stomach. It's that awful darkness that I know many people experience. I guess the one positive is that I am recognizing it right away. So I'm trying to stay afloat here. Had a job interview on Tuesday, which would be awesome to get. School is done in 5 weeks and I will go crazy without a job. Just need some distraction. Subscribe to: Posts (Atom).
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Oh, I'm not their mom: February 2011
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Oh, I'm not their mom. Friday, February 4, 2011. Anyone heard about this or planning to see it? I'd like to check it out. but have the same anxiety that I have about finishing Stepmonster - just too much step-mom overload. The trailer for the movie looks promising - hopefully a realistic depiction of step-parenting. Http:/ www.fandango.com/movie-trailer/theotherwoman-trailer/140812/1 704490. Subscribe to: Posts (Atom). Made for me by SD10. Me (27 yo step mom and new wife). SD12 - 12 yo step-daughter.
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Oh, I'm not their mom: she wrote back
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Oh, I'm not their mom. Monday, September 20, 2010. Wow I'm still trying to process this. Not sure what the write back. The ear infection that I currently have doesn't help matters either. Any suggestions? Myname].I am going to go out on a limb here,. You don't even know me. and I don't know you. You see those three Beautiful children: [SD12, SD10, SS8]. The lights of my life. [husband] and I created those beings together. And I am just like them.just as he is. I can sum it up to one word: FEAR. THEN ...
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Oh, I'm not their mom: Crash
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Oh, I'm not their mom. Thursday, April 12, 2012. Oh goodness. I don't know even where to begin. I can feel the downward pull of depression in the pit of my stomach. It's that awful darkness that I know many people experience. I guess the one positive is that I am recognizing it right away. So I'm trying to stay afloat here. Had a job interview on Tuesday, which would be awesome to get. School is done in 5 weeks and I will go crazy without a job. Just need some distraction. April 12, 2012 at 6:18 PM.
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Oh, I'm not their mom: May 2011
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Oh, I'm not their mom. Sunday, May 22, 2011. How do you untangle yourself from a marriage, from step-parenting, without losing a part of yourself? The relationship with my husband might not be working, but what about all of the other parts of my life that ARE? Work, school, parenting? Not having those kids in my life would be like losing a limb. Their importance to me surpasses all other things in my life. Was that wrong to do? Did I miss something? Subscribe to: Posts (Atom). Made for me by SD10. I've b...
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Oh, I'm not their mom: December 2010
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Oh, I'm not their mom. Wednesday, December 29, 2010. Now hold onto your skirts, this post isn't about THAT kind of role playing. But I can blog about it in the future if requested. This was a really hard thing for my husband to come to terms with. I was so overly involved before. Killing myself to be amazing and "fix" the kids. Give them what they missed out on in life. When I stepped back, my husband was confused and hurt. Why wasn't I making an effort to meet the kids' teachers? Made for me by SD10.
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Oh, I'm not their mom: emailed her
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Oh, I'm not their mom. Friday, September 17, 2010. September 20, 2010 at 5:55 PM. Ill cross my fingers! I hope that BM is able to share with you two. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). Made for me by SD10. I've been in my step-kids lives since Sept 2008. The parenting part is easy and fun - the ex-wife part is impossible. Me (27 yo step mom and new wife). SD12 - 12 yo step-daughter. SD10 - 10 yo step-daughter. SS7 - 8 yo step-son. View my complete profile. More money, more child support.
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Oh, I'm not their mom: What I wrote back
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Oh, I'm not their mom. Wednesday, October 13, 2010. What I wrote back. So a few weeks ago BM emailed me this long and ranty email. Thanks everyone for your input. A friend helped me craft the following response. BM hasn't responded, which is fine. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). Made for me by SD10. I've been in my step-kids lives since Sept 2008. The parenting part is easy and fun - the ex-wife part is impossible. Me (27 yo step mom and new wife). SD12 - 12 yo step-daughter. SS7 - 8 yo step-son.
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Oh, I'm not their mom: July 2010
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Oh, I'm not their mom. Friday, July 30, 2010. Oh how I wish this could be sent to BM. I wonder if there will ever be a place where she could read this? How Sabotaging Stepmoms Hurts Your Children. Monday, July 26, 2010. Sorry all - I know that you were waiting impatiently for my next post. :-P. Subscribe to: Posts (Atom). Made for me by SD10. While I play to role of mom 60% of the time, I'm "not their mom." I'm constantly having to correct people when I'm with the kids, as they are sensitive when thi...
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Oh, I'm not their mom: tax return
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Oh, I'm not their mom. Wednesday, September 29, 2010. So for those not in the know - husband and I had our wedding in early 2010, but got legally married in early 2009. Health insurance etc caused us to do it sooner. We didn't tell our families because it was about 6 months after we met and we were already accused (appropriately) of moving too fast. September 30, 2010 at 8:49 AM. October 12, 2010 at 6:52 AM. The silly, selfish games of women like this are so lame, and so hurtful to the kids. While I play...
