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nine: The Onset of Dating
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Monday, November 28, 2011. The Onset of Dating. I'd like to backtrack a little by discussing my pre-relationship life and getting you up to speed on my dating misadventures. So, here's how dating began. I didn't think I was going to meet anyone that special when I started dating. It was just an experiment. An experiment in sampling a life that so many other people seemed to be partaking in, a dating life. I approached it pretty casually, and that's exactly how it started. I'm serious. Hear me out. Stay t...
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nine: Dissolving
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Tuesday, April 21, 2009. I drove down the highway late one night from work, and as I headed for home it began to occur to me that I wasn't going home the same way I had gone the past few years on that familar drive. I had to take a new route, to my new home. My home without him. Tired from a long day, all I wanted to do was fall into my bed in my own home, with him. Scenarios starting spinning around in my head. I'd disappear all over again. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). Enter your email address:.
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nine: The Additional Suitors and The One that Stuck
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Sunday, January 22, 2012. The Additional Suitors and The One that Stuck. Since I never fully committed to the surgeon we kept things open and I kept dating. During most of this I was still dating the surgeon and I started to realize a few things about him. I realized that when he told me he was falling for me, he may not have been falling for me exactly. He barely knew me. How could he know I might be "the one? Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). Enter your email address:. Architecture, interior design, ...
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nine: Dating.... Around?
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Friday, December 16, 2011. So damn true, but I'm working on it. So in my efforts to be less like Cher and not continue on as a serial monogamist, I vowed not to settle down too fast. So no, the surgeon didn't move in, but I did end up dating him longer than any other guy in the running. It was hard to do and I was proud of myself for using my voice and sticking to my instincts. It all seemed pretty mature to me actually. I think it's important to tell people up-front who we are and what we need. Me pieci...
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nine: A Series of Parts: Part 3
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Monday, June 28, 2010. A Series of Parts: Part 3. So, Dear Followers, have you been wondering what happened in March? Well… we met, we talked, and we both walked away with a shared respect and love for one another that only two people that shared nearly a decade together could have. All is well in the world and I got all the closure I so desperately needed and now live a peaceful existence knowing that I’ve neatly closed this chapter in my life. Here’s what really happened - in my reality. March, Week 1:.
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nine: Wise words
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Monday, April 20, 2009. He's got his head so far up his ass that he can't see daylight.so I don't know what you expected.". April 20, 2009 at 2:52 PM. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). Enter your email address:. Architecture, interior design, hotel rooms, lighting (admiring it and planning it), making lists, organizing and then reorganizing, an obsession with beauty products, and celebrating minor accomplishments. View my complete profile. Parking Lots and The Heaps. My Magical Best Friend.
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nine: Somebody That I Used to Know
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Wednesday, February 8, 2012. Somebody That I Used to Know. I heard "Somebody That I Used to Know" by Goyte yesterday. When I heard the first part I felt this startling moment of recognition, it was almost alarming, and it touched my heart - feeing it so close to me that I felt this pain in the pit of my stomach when I related to the words. Now and then I think of when we were together. Like when you said you felt so happy you could die. Told myself that you were right for me. Feeling glad something is ov...
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nine: Nine
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Wednesday, March 4, 2009. Day 1 was February 16th, 2009. After nine years, I started over. For the first time, I only have myself to think about. For years I had thought about another person far more than I had ever thought about myself and because of that, I was lost for a long time. My needs, wants, likes, dislikes were secondary. They weren't important enough and because of that I began to forget about myself, my interests, what makes me who I am. I'm starting with nine, that's where I begin. The Rule...
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nine: A Series of Parts: Part 2
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Wednesday, June 23, 2010. A Series of Parts: Part 2. When we last left off it was February and I had just sent a text to my ex. It read, "It's been a year and I think I'm ready to talk. Will you talk to me? After I sent the text, I proceeded to stare at the phone for all of maybe 10 minutes. Because 10 minutes was all it took for him to respond. 8220;I would like to. Were you thinking over the phone? Now, I wasn't entirely sure that he had moved already. 8220;I heard you moved. Are you still here? I coul...
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nine: The Symbolism of Start
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Friday, March 26, 2010. The Symbolism of Start. Hello, Dear Readers. I know I've been absent for some time now, but hear me out. But before I delve into all of that (which, believe me, is pretty interesting stuff) I'll start off with a post about how the word START. Took on a whole new meaning in a very unexpected way. Me, the most nonathletic person you've never met ran a 5 mile race through the streets of downtown Chicago; sweating, panting, and almost crying to the finish line. I never would have thou...
