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Chocolatey Thoughts: The Tough Questions
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Thursday, June 12, 2014. It's come out in the news. Men shouldn't use their priesthood authority to dominate or lord over anyone. In fact, the church teaches that any man who tries to do so is unworthy to carry the priesthood. The priesthood is about service. It's about helping, uplifting, and blessing others. It's a sacred responsibility. Does having the priesthood make men better or more important than women? And we are therefore better suited for different things. We compliment each other. 8220;The tr...
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Chocolatey Thoughts: To Thine Own Self Be True
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Monday, December 9, 2013. To Thine Own Self Be True. I was video chatting with my husband the other night, and he was telling me a bit about the psychology classes he was taking for the Master's degree he's working on. He told me that studies show that girls are more likely to be influenced by their peers than boys are. She made me do this. (j/k). Someone said she needed "more color". Girls are more manipulative than boys, too. Again, this is all exaggeration - not every. Not a real queen bee. I think th...
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Chocolatey Thoughts: Aaaaaand.... THERE'S the Happy Ending!
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Saturday, March 29, 2014. Aaaaaand. THERE'S the Happy Ending! As some of you may know, today I was having a rotten day due to a particularly sadistic dream my brain whipped up. Long story short, I woke up wondering if I actually make any kind of difference or impact as a human being, or whether I'm ultimately useless and replaceable. My brain was coming down on the side of "useless and replaceable.". Like I said, rotten day. Such a tiny change, but such a huge impact. The theme of the entire meeting was ...
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Chocolatey Thoughts: The Moody Moving Blues
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Tuesday, August 26, 2014. The Moody Moving Blues. Okay, those of you who know me know that I moved a few months ago. The move I'm talking about today isn't super recent. We moved to California right after school got out in Texas, so we've been here almost three months. But even though the boxes are unpacked, Evie's settling into her new school, and we've gotten relatively familiar with the area, "the move" is still happening in a sense. It's still a trial in one very specific way. And then we do. I'm sur...
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Chocolatey Thoughts: A Real Man
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Tuesday, January 7, 2014. As my husband has been deployed the past few months, we've found that sometimes it's hard to find things to talk about. We're lucky because we get to talk to each other almost every day, either through Facebook chat or Skype. But he's not doing much on his deployment that is terribly exciting, and life here is business as usual. So sometimes we have to get creative to find things to discuss. Good a man he really is. He was talking with an Army guy a few weeks back and mentioned ...
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Chocolatey Thoughts: January 2013
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Wednesday, January 2, 2013. The Lord teaches us and molds us with one thing at a time. If He tried to pour all understanding on our heads at one time, we would be overwhelmed and would probably give up immediately. Instead, in His great wisdom, He goes at our. Pace Sometimes we're in a place where we're spiritually prepared to receive a great deal of understanding. At other times - most of the time - we receive understanding in bits and pieces. God weeps with us when we weep. He feels our anguish, an...
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Chocolatey Thoughts: July 2013
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Friday, July 19, 2013. Lose the Battle, Win the War. Next month will be officially six years since we started trying for baby #2. It simultaneously seems like a short amount of time - just look how fast Evie has grown! That last week of every cycle is grueling. Especially on the rare occasions when I don't see the spotting right away. Usually I do, and that ends the question, and I can move on. But when it starts late, it gets my hopes skyrocketing up every time. For me, that is unheard of! This time, th...
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Chocolatey Thoughts: When Brains Go Bad
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Saturday, March 29, 2014. When Brains Go Bad. A while back, I finally really let myself believe that Ben is head over heels in love with me and devoted to me. Since then, I have had very few - if any - nightmares about him leaving me. So, my brain being the sadistic jerk that it is, it's finding other ways to mess me up. He came home, and it was awesome. Because having him home IS AWESOME. But of course, no matter how hard I tried to not think about it, the monthly "what if? Be a sign of pregnancy. Too m...
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Chocolatey Thoughts: March 2013
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Thursday, March 28, 2013. To My Daughters: Be Empowered! This is a letter to all the daughters: specifically those of the LDS church, but also to anyone else who may come across it. They could not be more wrong. We aren't oppressed. We are empowered. Our religion teaches us that we are equals to men. This does not mean that men and women are exactly the same. It means that we have the same value in God's eyes, and in one another's. Of us to throw it all away of our own free will. In our church magazine (...
