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The good news, or the bad news? | try not to cry on my rainbow
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Try not to cry on my rainbow. Married to a sex addict. Rebuilding a relationship. The recovery journey. The good news, or the bad news? August 4, 2015. What would you like first? Well, I have chosen to go with the bad first. The good will come next. I always choose bad news first, when given a choice. Good news in the next post. Married to a sex addict. Wife of a sex addict. The good news →. 9 thoughts on “ The good news, or the bad news? August 5, 2015 at 2:35 pm. Liked by 1 person. Liked by 1 person.
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Showers | try not to cry on my rainbow
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Try not to cry on my rainbow. Married to a sex addict. Rebuilding a relationship. The recovery journey. August 12, 2015. August 12, 2015. Photo credit: Raindrops falling onto water. Colours by Murray Mitchell (www.murraymitchell.com). Married to a sex addict. Ocean Waters →. 20 thoughts on “ Showers. August 17, 2015 at 11:58 am. So positive. Happy for you x. Liked by 1 person. August 14, 2015 at 6:30 pm. Oh how I can’t wait for the day I go months without crying in the shower! Liked by 1 person. Liked by...
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The Fantasyland of Adultery | marriagerecoveryblog
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Music to help get you through the storm. Resources for helping to understand adultery. The Fantasyland of Adultery. Toto, I don’t think we’re in Kansas anymore”. In a previous blog I wrote about the wastelands of adultery. I still have preference for this metaphor but recently found myself intrigued by a blog which suggested a “fantasyland” of affairs. Although the article was written by Rick Reynolds the Founder and President of Affair Recovery. And deception left Dorothy pining away for the very thing ...
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The Wasteland of Adultery | marriagerecoveryblog
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Music to help get you through the storm. Resources for helping to understand adultery. The Wasteland of Adultery. Land that is desolate, barren or ravaged. A place, era or aspect of life considered as lacking in spiritual, aesthetic or other humanising qualities; a vacuum. Think he was going? I have no doubt that he thought he was going somewhere GOOD for him. A place of. What turned the circus to a wasteland? Reality. Yes reality. REALITY. Equally, is it really possible to lie, deceive and betray someon...
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BOOKS | marriagerecoveryblog
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Music to help get you through the storm. Resources for helping to understand adultery. I am an avid reader by nature and have always been quite bookish. I have also worked as an educational researcher and some things just stay with you. I am indebted to all the authors of these books for showing me a range of different frames of reference to understand my devastating experience of infidelity. (The list will be long – it’s a work in progress! The Monogamy Myth by Peggy Vaughan. 8220;The reason dealing wit...
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horsesrcumin | Tearing at the Fabric
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Tearing at the Fabric. Of the space-time continuum. November 2, 2016. It is always sobering when you contemplate a death. A young person’s one always has you reviewing your own, and holding your own children that little bit closer, at least for a while. I can’t quite work that out, did she want to spare herself the pity of others? Her children the worry of losing her? Or what else was the motivation to not let her family say goodbye properly? So, what has that got to do with my usual blog material? I nee...
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POST 59: NO CRIME NO PUNISHMENT – Marriage, Relationships
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December 22, 2016. December 22, 2016. POST 59: NO CRIME NO PUNISHMENT. When you do wrong, you expect a consequence. We teach children the consequences of their wrongdoing. It does not make them “bad kids”, but a kid who is learning what is right and what is wrong and the consequences of both. How come betrayed feel the urge to punish? If a betrayed spouse can trust that there is no longer any betrayal in any form, the betrayed spouse will be able to gradually place the wrongdoing in the past and have pea...
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Adultery: 100% pure fiction cake! | marriagerecoveryblog
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Music to help get you through the storm. Resources for helping to understand adultery. Adultery: 100% pure fiction cake! Fiction Cake; What a lovely title for a book about adultery. Fiction: literature that describes imaginary events and people. Something that is invented or untrue. I’m stretching the definition here for my own purpose because it is not really literature it is actions and feelings and thoughts that are fictional here. I had a marriage that was ‘affair proof’. Clearly not! My husband was ...
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Shame | try not to cry on my rainbow
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Try not to cry on my rainbow. Married to a sex addict. Rebuilding a relationship. The recovery journey. July 24, 2015. July 24, 2015. When I first saw the above “quote,” I immediately thought of my husband. He was the one denying his real story and acting out and rationalizing and compartmentalizing. Denial was his best friend. Shame is the fear of disconnection. Is there something about me that if other people know it or see it that I won’t be worthy of connection? Basically, Shame = I AM BAD. I hav...
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try not to cry on my rainbow | Married to a sex addict. Rebuilding a relationship. The recovery journey. | Page 2
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Try not to cry on my rainbow. Married to a sex addict. Rebuilding a relationship. The recovery journey. And while I’m on the topic…. August 3, 2016. Looking for something else, I came across this approximately five year old Newsweek article regarding sex addiction, which I had seen oh so many months ago. The Sex Addiction Epidemic. In re-reading through the article, I had an “aha” moment. And here we go again with people talking about Tiger Woods (from the article):. Mr Donaghue does not actually state w...