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Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope: October 2009
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Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope. Thursday, October 15, 2009. At first, I was a little scared of the idea of this change (how very codependent of me) because I was concerned that being ready to move on meant that I didn't want to face my own reality. After all, if I just start acting like none of this ever happened, won't it all just happen again? Wasn't that what got me into trouble in the first place, ignoring all the bad things that were going on for the sake of keeping the peace? A Sex Addict...
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Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope: March 2010
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Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope. Sunday, March 28, 2010. I wanted to shout through the phone line (or somehow teleport myself through it to shake her into sense). Nothing you do can control what he does. His behavior is his, his bad choices are his, and the consequences of those choices do not have to make your life worse if you don't let them. Thursday, March 11, 2010. Do you ever get frustrated on behalf of someone else? Today D called me from work because he was incredibly frustrated that the...
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Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope: Frustration
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Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope. Tuesday, April 20, 2010. The house is dirty. Dog fur rolls across the floor like tumbleweeds. And the grass is too high. And the dishes need washed. So many projects are running around in my head-. Ideas of painting the kitchen and staining the deck and powerwashing the siding. And replacing the old and broken down and worn out. But then the car needs brakes. And the dog needs medicine. And I have to buy books for next year before the loan money arrives. I bet it...
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Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope: Running
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Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope. Friday, May 14, 2010. So I'm currently studying for a rather massive certification exam and have essentially been holing up at local libraries/coffee shops/anywhere with a quiet table and plug for my laptop for the past 2 weeks, hardly emerging to check my e-mail, let alone blog. What I have emerged for, however, is my newly found hobby of running. Now if only I could make it apply to studying. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). View my complete profile.
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Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope: Gratitude
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Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope. Friday, April 16, 2010. This used to be the pattern, you see. Throughout D's addicty years and even early on in recovery, if there was something he just didn't want to do. Of course, there is always room for disappointment later, but it's these little changes in attitude that have truly marked the biggest differences in our lives over the past year- and for those, I am eternally and overwhelmingly grateful. Edit: We had a fabulous time. :-). Tell Me a Story.
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Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope: Letting Go (Again!)
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Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope. Sunday, July 18, 2010. Wow- 2 months since my last post? I swear I haven't disappeared into the abyss. Just into the depths of more than a month of massive studying for a qualification exam (which I just discovered that I passed! I understand how this must be a bit nerve wracking and frightening for you. still, it is a huge leap of faith and trust and that says volumes about how far you have come. August 7, 2010 at 4:35 PM. Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom).
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Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope: December 2009
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Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope. Wednesday, December 16, 2009. In which I don't ask for what I want, but get what I need. Cue the Rolling Stones. This morning, D and I slept in- well, D slept in, and I woke up early to study because it's finals week in the graduate school world. He woke up when one of his co-workers called to remind him about the pot luck lunch that was happening today at his job, to which he was supposed to bring a relatively substantial dish. Subscribe to: Posts (Atom). Tell M...
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Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope: February 2010
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Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope. Sunday, February 28, 2010. Most recent post, helped me realize that one of the issues I still have (and have never really worked on) is the anger I have felt (and still feel) toward D for this whole situation. Saturday, February 27, 2010. D informed me last night that he was going to spend a couple hours after work today helping a (female) friend move. Now, when I work through things, I tend to love making lists. So, without further ado. What if they've been text...
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Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope: September 2010
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Behind the Lies: Fear, Recovery and Hope. Wednesday, September 22, 2010. Today marks two years of sobriety for D, two years of recovery for me, and two days since the start of my favorite season. Happy fall, all. Subscribe to: Posts (Atom). Married to a recovering sex addict, working my way through graduate school, finding myself and learning to love life. View my complete profile. Love in the Time of Addiction. Resep Jajanan Kue Cubit Manis Spesial. Sophie in the Moonlight. Tell Me a Story.