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Say what you mean and mean what you say: Allowing your partners to know what consent means to you | The Poly Man Whore
https://polymanwhore.wordpress.com/2015/01/29/say-what-you-mean-and-mean-what-you-say-allowing-your-partners-to-know-what-consent-means-to-you
The Poly Man Whore. Poly dating and lifestyle advice. Say what you mean and mean what you say: Allowing your partners to know what consent means to you. I rediscovered something about myself this week. I can’t cope with ambiguity in expectations. I also can’t deal with people not saying what they mean. And I definitely, absolutely cannot deal with a person who says no but doesn’t mean no. 8220;Why’d you stop? 8221; She asked me, breathless, surprised. 8220;You told me to stop,” I said. Then this girl sta...
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Withdrawal… There’s always something! | The Poly Man Whore
https://polymanwhore.wordpress.com/2015/07/28/withdrawal-theres-always-something
The Poly Man Whore. Poly dating and lifestyle advice. Withdrawal… There’s always something! Like that. All the time. An Arquillian Battle Cruiser, or a Corillian Death Ray, or an intergalactic plague that is about to wipe out all life on this miserable little planet…”. Kay: Did he say anything to you? James Edwards: Yeah, that the world is coming to an end. Kay: Did he say when? Leave a Reply Cancel reply. Enter your comment here. Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:. Next post →. I had...
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Poly does not have to mean rich and white | The Poly Man Whore
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The Poly Man Whore. Poly dating and lifestyle advice. Poly does not have to mean rich and white. I’m getting tired of hearing all of the nonsense from article after article ( http:/ mic.com/articles/109616/there-s-a-big-problem-with-polyamory-that-nobody-s-talking-about. And http:/ theweek.com/articles/538413/polyamorycan-teach-about-economics-family-life. That discuss polyamory as being the domain of affluent white people. This is a pile of bunk. Out of nowhere, there was a deluge! These arguments about...
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“I feel like I’m dating half of you” | The Poly Man Whore
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The Poly Man Whore. Poly dating and lifestyle advice. 8220;I feel like I’m dating half of you”. The other night, I was on a date with a new girl – an absolutely hot, sexy Spitfire. She excused herself to use the restroom. While she was gone, I texted the girlfriend. “It’s going pretty well. She’s cute and funny and we’re having a pretty good time. Also, I have not been murdered. Love you, see you later! 8221; I hit send and put my phone away just as I saw the Spitfire returning from the bathroom. 8220;We...
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The Poly Man Whore. Poly dating and lifestyle advice. One of the most uniquely poly behaviors we have is seeking solace and comfort from our heartache from our partners. The girlfriend said to me the other day, “I’m really sorry it didn’t work out with The Kitten.” Then she thought for a moment and said, “You know what? I never thought in my life before that I would ever console my boyfriend about another woman.”. She continued, “Is it possible I have a poly heart and just didn’t know it? 8220;You have i...
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Trust and competition | The Poly Man Whore
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The Poly Man Whore. Poly dating and lifestyle advice. I figured out the root behind most of my current trust issues and fear. I’m afraid of being passed over for someone worse. I know that I am going to get responses to this post asking who I am to judge these people. I’m someone who is good to the people I love. I am attentive and I listen and I’m thoughtful and courteous. That’s who I am. Whether a relationship works out in the end or not, I have references who can say...Even if these other, low-qualit...
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“That’s not a real thing!” | The Poly Man Whore
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The Poly Man Whore. Poly dating and lifestyle advice. 8220;That’s not a real thing! When the girlfriend and I got together, she was fascinated by my poly past. She had no idea polyamory really existed. She vaguely had a concept of swinging existing. Anyone who has read Penthouse Letters knows kind of vaguely that swinging exists. But since she has been exposed to polyamory, she is starting to see poly people in her normal life. There are poly people there! Every time she goes to hang out with her “...
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The Kitten | The Poly Man Whore
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The Poly Man Whore. Poly dating and lifestyle advice. On New Years Eve, I had my first poly date in, well, a while. The Kitten found me on Plenty of Fish, where I’d kind of forgotten I even had a profile. POF is a sleezy slum of a neighborhood. I don’t care for it. She sent me a message and I replied and then we were talking. She kept saying, “Give me time. You’ll love me, I promise.” Yeah. That was when I started to realize how this all sounded. She was very upset after I told her I didn’t want to...
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Dating Rules | The Poly Man Whore
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The Poly Man Whore. Poly dating and lifestyle advice. I’ve been asked a bunch of times now what makes up my current set of dating rules. Don’t make the second date the day after the first. Give things time to shake out. Be a gentleman. You can be a feminist and still hold the door for her and don’t sit down until she has sat down. Don’t be afraid to treat her like she’s special. If she isn’t special, why are you out with her? Leave a Reply Cancel reply. Enter your comment here. Fill in your details below...