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Must learn to admit when I fail – and take the rap « Subtowife’s Weblog
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A submissive husbands reflections. Journal of a marriage. Laquo; Building a new D/s framework. Must learn to admit when I fail – and take the rap. On March 13, 2010. Yesterday she was furious with me because I hadn’t done a simple task with our son good enough. She was right, there was some things I should have taken care of, but I didn’t. I went early to bed, had acted like a spoiled child all night, not talking to her, not serving her. Must learn to take blame from her, must lean not to act like a child.
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2009 January « Subtowife’s Weblog
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A submissive husbands reflections. Journal of a marriage. Archive for January, 2009. On January 4, 2009. During summer 2008 my WLM-relationsship with my wife stopped. I had build up a lot of frustration and at that time I needed relief for my frustrations. Unfortunately it ended with at lot of topping from the bottom and the WLM-relationship died. Yesterday we agreed to give it a new start. We both want to be happy in our marriage and adding the D/s perspective feels right for us.
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2008 March « Subtowife’s Weblog
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A submissive husbands reflections. Journal of a marriage. Archive for March, 2008. Is your wife dominant? On March 24, 2008. Since I wrote this blog-entry I have changed my view on how to submit to my wife. My focus when writing this entry was on “how to make my wife fullfill my needs.” The blogentry was commented by Urmel and Ms. Rika. Ms. Rikas comment made a big impression on me and I have later bought and read her book. Original entry starts here:. Will she ever enjoy being dominant? For every step t...
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2008 June « Subtowife’s Weblog
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A submissive husbands reflections. Journal of a marriage. Archive for June, 2008. On June 1, 2008. I bought another book this week, Uniquely Rika. The book is about service-oriented dominance and submission. For anybody living in a wife-led-marriage this book is essential. I was interested in the book after a mailcorrespondance I had with Ms Rika. She was kind enough to comment on an entry in my blog. After her comment I wrote to her and she gave my som good advice. Blog at WordPress.com. Build a website...
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2008 May « Subtowife’s Weblog
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A submissive husbands reflections. Journal of a marriage. Archive for May, 2008. Finally bought “Around her finger”. On May 24, 2008. When I first found the site www.aroundherfinger.com. It was like a wakening to me. The site introduced me to wife led marriages and I soon realized that this was what I wanted. Finding that site was the start of my adventure into wife-led-marriages and love of the female authority. The book is for sale on lulu.com. Posted in wife led marriage. Tagged: wilfe led marriage.
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2009 May « Subtowife’s Weblog
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A submissive husbands reflections. Journal of a marriage. Archive for May, 2009. On May 3, 2009. After three months of service for my wife and actively trying to please her in any way I could think of, I now in limbo – and is very frustrated. Here is my problem. I don’t feel I get the feedback I need and I don’t get the “treasts” I need. I have told her this many times, have written letters and textmessages. But nothing happens… and my frustration grows. I’m now at the point where motivation is los...
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2010 February « Subtowife’s Weblog
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A submissive husbands reflections. Journal of a marriage. Archive for February, 2010. Building a new D/s framework. On February 27, 2010. Building a framework – the new way. Frameworks seems to facilitate growth. If I see D/s as a framework that will be able to grow in many directions I will just design the basics, the rest will develop in the parnership. Comfort in the family and financial security. A good marriage based on love and affection. Everyday things should work well. A window for work. All oth...
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2008 February « Subtowife’s Weblog
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A submissive husbands reflections. Journal of a marriage. Archive for February, 2008. To masturbate or not to masturbate. On February 29, 2008. Im often masturbate every day. But since I announced my submission to my wife I have only masturbated a couple of times. Submitting to her should mean that she decides when I can have orgasm. Masturbating feels like “cheeting”. But then again she haven’ t told me that I couldn’t masturbate…. But maybe she will later. I wish she would. Posted in wife led marriage.
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2009 December « Subtowife’s Weblog
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A submissive husbands reflections. Journal of a marriage. Archive for December, 2009. Have to find a new way. On December 6, 2009. My frustrations about our relationship grew to much and we had to suspend our D/s-relation. Reflecting on the relationsship I have noticed a series of problems. Whatever reason I would have for entering a D/s relationship, the relationhip will only work if I get what I need. This is clear to me. I nice to service her. I luv making tea to her when she desires it, I love th...
