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Restoring Families: Power and Control Cycle

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Dedicated to empowering families to bring hope, peace and connection to their homes. Friday, February 17, 2006. Power and Control Cycle. It is critical to understand the power and control cycle. And how we are caught up in it. When we can admit that we are in the DV cycle then we can begin to find the way out. Begins again. But it is only a matter of time until tension arrives and the cycle begins all over again. Power and Control Cycle. Honeymoon stage (starts again). Posted by Eddie Zacapa. Eddie Zacap...

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Restoring Families: Building A Life Raft

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Dedicated to empowering families to bring hope, peace and connection to their homes. Friday, May 04, 2007. Building A Life Raft. There is no doubt that society, family and our environment plays a big part in constructing our initial self-image. Every human being has the potential to blossom a personality and self-image that is filled with grace and beauty but many times something goes awry. Ruth Myers in her book Christ Life writes that it is wise do an inner identity album and to put labels on the negat...

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Restoring Families: The Seven Pitfalls to True Manhood

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Dedicated to empowering families to bring hope, peace and connection to their homes. Tuesday, April 10, 2007. The Seven Pitfalls to True Manhood. 1 Power and Control:. 3 Violence as Permissible:. 4 Disconnection from Emotions:. 5 Mixing up Strategies with Needs:. 6 Judgmental Thoughts of Others:. Posted by Eddie Zacapa. Seven Pitfalls to true manhood. Breaking the Power and Control Cycle. Healing Deep Inner Wounds. Listening To Our Emotional Cues. Power Struggles in Relationships. View my complete profile.

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Restoring Families: Breaking the Power and Control Cycle

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Dedicated to empowering families to bring hope, peace and connection to their homes. Saturday, March 11, 2006. Breaking the Power and Control Cycle. There are a few things we can do to break the power and control cycle in our lives. It is frustrating to be stuck in anything. The good news is that we can get unstuck. Here are six things that will help us get out of the cycle. That we are in the cycle and that we struggle with power and control tendencies. We need to seek help. We need to practice the tools.

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Restoring Families: Listening To Our Emotional Cues

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Dedicated to empowering families to bring hope, peace and connection to their homes. Monday, July 24, 2006. Listening To Our Emotional Cues. Unfortunately, many times we do the opposite. When we feel a negative emotion we may ignore it completetly and/or react violently towards others. How many times have we felt angry and as a result insulted, judged, criticized, blamed or physically hurt someone? So, what can we do? Or say, "I am feeling because I am needing .". This will help us to focus on our human ...

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Restoring Families: The Detour: My Roadmap to Anger and Disharmony

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Dedicated to empowering families to bring hope, peace and connection to their homes. Thursday, April 12, 2007. The Detour: My Roadmap to Anger and Disharmony. Most of us have developed our own roadmap when it comes to handling anger and conflict. Whether we are aware of it or not there is a pattern that we follow. For many of us it is a map that leads to disharmony, pain, anger and disconnection. Then this person may think that this other person who did not do the dishes is lazy or irresponsible. The...

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Restoring Families: Communication Toolbox

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Dedicated to empowering families to bring hope, peace and connection to their homes. Tuesday, April 11, 2006. If a construction worker went to work without his toolbox he would be in deep trouble. Matter fact, he would probably not be able to accomplish anything that day and lose a day of work. The same is true for us when we encounter a situation where there is conflict or disagreement. Leaving the situation for one hour and coming back after one hour to talk). 2 “I” statements. Posted by Eddie Zacapa.

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Restoring Families: Practicing a Timeout

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Dedicated to empowering families to bring hope, peace and connection to their homes. Tuesday, April 11, 2006. When we feel tension and a strong intensity of negative feelings it is wise to remove ourselves from the situation. Especially, because what we may so or do may cause hurt to others. Below are some steps to taking a timeout when we are involved in a relationship. 1 Recognize your emotional cues, body cues and behavioral cues and if you need a timeout decide to take one. While Taking a Timeout).

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Restoring Families: Power Struggles in Relationships

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Dedicated to empowering families to bring hope, peace and connection to their homes. Tuesday, February 14, 2006. Power Struggles in Relationships. As far as we can go back in time it seems like there have been power struggles going on between men and women. In Genesis 3:18 we are told about where this power struggle originated. It tells us about the consequences of Eve's sin (having eaten of the forbidden fruit) and enlightens us on its effects on the relationship between a man and woman. In our relation...