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The Boy With The Inked Skin: Poly Means Many - NRE or Bust

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The Boy With The Inked Skin. Monday, 7 January 2013. Poly Means Many - NRE or Bust. What I always long for is what comes *after* the NRE; the stability, which some think is mundane, fosters security, consistency, and familiarity. I know what to expect, and where the boundaries are. It is important however when having NRE with someone new, to occasionally step back and analyse things. Ask yourself: Am I devoting more time/money/resources to this person than I really afford? The Boy With The Inked Skin.

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The Boy With The Inked Skin: Poly Means Many - Commitment Does Not Mean Exclusivity

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The Boy With The Inked Skin. Monday, 3 December 2012. Poly Means Many - Commitment Does Not Mean Exclusivity. Commitment, it’s a word that means so much, to so many people. It’s often linked to marriage; but also to our job, our friendships, or our Sunday afternoon football team. We commit to baking something for the company bake sale, or to attending a friend’s party. In all these instances, it implies that we are going to do. Something, to promise to do it no matter what, and to do only. I'm young, bi,...

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The Boy With The Inked Skin: September 2012

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The Boy With The Inked Skin. Monday, 3 September 2012. Fear and Loss in Polyland. Being poly means more partners, more love, more support. Sadly, it also means more loss. Having 3 people who love you is great, but losing 3 people who love you is less than great. But, having a larger. Of those who love you makes any dark time easier to get through. In the end, I know that poly. For me and, despite the greater potential for heartbreak, the greater potential for love makes it all worth while.

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The Boy With The Inked Skin: January 2013

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The Boy With The Inked Skin. Thursday, 31 January 2013. My Invisible Freak Flag. Last night during a post-dance class pub discussion on changing identity, I was made to think a lot about how my identity has changed over the years, Mostly, about how I see myself, and about how to world sees me. I think this sort of ties into some sort of ‘queer-invisibility’ issue. Despite my ‘normal-looking’ exterior, I still feel. All the while, finding ways to still fly my freak-flag high. Monday, 7 January 2013. There...

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Poly Means Many: committed | An Open Book

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If you're close enough to read me. Is it wrong if…? Poly Means Many: committed. December 3, 2012. This month, the Poly Means Many project is looking at commitment – which means this has to be another one of those ‘define your terms’ posts. 8217; ‘why bother maintaining two separate households, is it so you can cheat? 8217;). We have a model of how relationships progress, and however far down that track you are is equivalent in most people’s minds to how committed you are. The general social expectation i...

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Poly Means Many: Born This Way? | An Open Book

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If you're close enough to read me. Open, up to a point. Clouded vision →. Poly Means Many: Born This Way? November 5, 2012. Is being polyamorous a choice, or a sexual orientation, like being gay or straight? I come down firmly on the side of choice… Mostly. Honestly, I think. Has the capacity (if not the inclination) to form multiple loving relationships. Setting aside sex and romantic love for a second, most people. Job anywhere – I couldn’t decide tomorrow that I’m going to go and run...The temptation ...

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The Boy With The Inked Skin: November 2012

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The Boy With The Inked Skin. Monday, 5 November 2012. Poly Means Many - Orientation or Choice? This question reminds me of the never-ending paradox of psychology, nature versus nurture. But asks specifically, have I always been 'poly', or is this something I actively chose? The short answer is: both! First off, I have a confession to make. It's not something that I come out with often, because, well. I sometimes feel that this is quite a taboo thing to say in my circles:. 3) I should try never to limit m...

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The Boy With The Inked Skin: December 2012

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The Boy With The Inked Skin. Monday, 3 December 2012. Poly Means Many - Commitment Does Not Mean Exclusivity. Commitment, it’s a word that means so much, to so many people. It’s often linked to marriage; but also to our job, our friendships, or our Sunday afternoon football team. We commit to baking something for the company bake sale, or to attending a friend’s party. In all these instances, it implies that we are going to do. Something, to promise to do it no matter what, and to do only. View my comple...

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Post Modern Sleaze: Poly Means Many: Non-lovers

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Read all about it. The online diary of an ethical pervert. Monday, 6 August 2012. Poly Means Many: Non-lovers. There are many aspects of polyamory. Each month seven bloggers. The Boy With The Inked Skin. And myself - will write about their views on one of them. This month: Non-lovers. An interesting topic this month, and one that can often cause the most questions and confusions. How do we define, relate and spend time with other people in our lives who are not our partners? Relationship is, how you.